
Originally Posted by
AstroPanther
Are you sure there's a problem, or is there some kind of standard you're feeling you should be living up to? I can't tell if you're simply not interested in dating, or if you are, but you don't know how to go about it. If you find that you're not really interested in anyone yet--and you did specify that you talked to gorgeous girls, but not necessarily intelligent ones, which could be the problem--then consider yourself fortunate. Perhaps you have enough clarity in your judgment of potential partners to know which ones aren't right for you. If you do, however, find a girl that you're dying to be closer to, my biggest recommendation is to take some time and learn about the way women think, and what they generally find attractive. My favorite book so far has been "The System" by Doc Love. Once you understand the way things work, it's almost impossible to be as nervous--you can't fear the unknown once it becomes known!