Should I LEAVE or Should I STAY

[jfoster]

Im also due to go on hoildays for two weeks with her in july and also as a date to a ball in august.

[Indignant]

Adult or Youngster... He is not ready to be committed. He loves her but he needs time to grow up. Is that so hard to comprehend?

well if you are so understanding why did you say that she deserves someone better? do you think that her mind is fully developed as to make a judgement on what kind of person she'd be better off with for the rest of her life?

[jfoster]

your right, i need time to grow up and do all the things i want to do in my life before i settle down. But I know she is the perfect girl for me when I am ready to settle down and I soooo afraid I loose her forever.

[CocoChanel]

Oh please. Anyone can make a judgment of whether the next person is better than the last. You don't have to be a ferkin senior citizen to figure that out. All I'm saying is, she will move on as will he. If it is meant to be they will be back in each other lives. but he has even admitted right now he wants to live his life but is torn because he wants to be with her.

[Gigabitch]

You're wasting her time, jfoster, and even if she were the perfect girl for you, her timing isn't the best, because you're not ready for her.

I think you should let her go. In fact, direct her to this website, let her read this thread, and tell her to log on here and we'll help her get over you.