My man irritates me to death!

[CocoChanel]

Amen Aeradalia!! Well Said

[Mish]

you could give me information on how to NOT be controlling, how to control my stupid rages.

Simply communicate what you feel. Look for solutions to the problems. For example, okay the half / half on cleaning is not working because he is obviously satisfied with the place being in a lesser cleaned condition than you. So instead of nit picking you can say, okay, this is not working, how about I do all the cleaning, but in return you do something else? (Then negotiate with him on a suitable chore). Then cleaning will be entirely your area and he will be in charge of something else like laundry or cooking or dishes, something more appropriate for him.

The fact that you have these rages means something is wrong. You need to find a way to recognize what gets you into that mood and then resolve those originators.

[Gigabitch]

Krissy, you need to be responsible for your outbursts. They're every bit as irritating as anything he does, and far more destructive.

The fact that you were threatened by porn shows me that you're an insecure little child. Giving up stupid, dangerous habits like racing and smoking is NOT the same thing as giving up looking at naked chicks. That was a weird deal. You know what would make more sense? If you told him that you would strip down and pose in any position he wants, any time he wants in exchange for him quitting porn. Guys like looking at naked chicks. So what? It's not personal. In fact, that's the point. Sometimes they just want to look at a naked chick without having to talk to her, call her or figure out why the **** she's bitching at them again.

So take some ****ing Paxil, already. Your guy doesn't clean the house as much as you do? Welcome to a little place I like to call reality. He is NEVER going to share your standards for cleanliness. I'm married to a total metrosexual, and you know what? I still have to tell him when things are getting icky because he has testicles, and apparently they make you blind to dust bunnies. Either get over it or hire a maid. I had a maid when I was with my ex and you know what? We never had a problem with his standards of how clean the house was.

I don't see it as a problem that he's laid-back. I see it as the possible salvation of your relationship, because most guys would have kicked you to the curb by now with your little tantrums and your wretched, disrespectful behavior.

[CocoChanel]

What's Paxil?

[Illusional]

women are never satisfied huh?

raverboy

[Aeradalia]

I tend to be pretty satisfied right after a good orgasm... hopefully that's not an exception...

[Indignant]

i tend to fall asleep right after.

[ecojeanne]

What's Paxil?

it's supposed to be a chill pill produced by the pharmaceutical industry to keep people from having anxiety attacks or suffering depression

[Lipp]

I like it clean. I work, pay half the bills and take care of both cars, and somehow I have to CLEAN the whole house while he does nothing but work, cause he thinks it's already clean.

Clarify, are you both working equally much?

And secondly, yes, us guys tend to be more relaxed and less eccentric about cleanliness.

[jjj]

no offence, but i no for sure id hate to be in a relationship with someone like you

[LoveHurts09]

she means they both go out to work but only she does the "work/cleaning" at home, well this is the case with most (the majority? ) relationships because the man is just not as bothered about it....

maybe u should give him a list of set chores for every day/week which is set - so he can get a routine... yes it sounds childish but getting a guy to clean really does need constant work in itself.
also try to give him more masculine chores like washing/wiping up or cooking rather then polishing and other less noticable jobs.

[Illusional]

i tend to fall asleep right after.

i usually do the same thing. but after a really "good" orgasm, i'll just pass out right on top of her.

raverboy