Out all night

[Gigabitch]

He's been honest at least

As far as you know. IMO, he doesn't have the behavior of a righteous man, you know what I mean?

[23mako]

Nothing good ever happens after midnight when you are in a relationship (when you are away from your significant other). Four possible options:

A.) He is a heavy drinker that has a hard time cutting himself off and going home.

B.) He doesn't want to be around you.

C.) He is trying hard to hook up with another girl.

D.) He feels smothered and just wanted to blow of some steam for a night.


If this is the only time he does it there is no point in jumping to conclusions. If he has a lot of nights like that he is probably doing one of the above. If you don't have trust in a relationship you don't have anything. If you love him, trust him. If you can't trust him, don't love him.

[lesa]

The best thing I ever did was not be there when he arrived. (Actually I was there but I was hiding and he was cursing knowing he messed up. He thought that I left him. He never did it again. That was so funny to me...but not him. hehe. I was 18 btw.)

Don't expect him to change but if you are not there, that may be his wakeup call. If not, it's up to you whether you tolerate his behavior or leave him.