My girlfriend is sending me some wierd signals

[carl1222]

After all the speculation ... too soon, too fast; bipolar;etc. it all seems to come down to one simple truth:

If a girl you are with suddenly loses romantic/physical interest in you, there's another guy involved.

Sorry.

Carl.

[Jhizzzosh]

okay so i got mad at her about it right? But i couldnt get the guts to admit i looked through her phone. Ya i am a pussy right? oh well anyways i told her i thought i didnt like her talking to him all the time. but anyways that night she could tell i was royally pissed off.

so the next day she was all texting me and texting me like crazy. I was bein pretty short with her in my texts and she asked what was wrong. and i asked wtf was wrong with her. and why is she doin what shes doing.

and her response was i was great, she has just had a lot on her mind. I talked to her mom a few days later and her mom told me she had been cryin bout work and school. So i guess that could be it, she goes to school 8-12 and works 1-730 monday through friday. Then works half the day saturday. But i really don't know if i can believe thats it.

So after that day everything seemed a lot better. We still have not gotten intamate. But she apologized for taking her stresses out on me and she got better. Seemed happier, i mean not her same old self. But better. Then Saturday night we went shoppipng for her to find an easter dress. We then went out to eat with my parents. she said she wanted to be home early because she had to get up early for church. I was fine with that. Hell she lives thirty minutes away from me. ( onthe weekends at her moms house) but during the week she is closer.

We got back to my house and i flipped on the TV. About 20 minutes later she was passed out. As i was sitting there my sister text me and told me to come out to this guys land they were having a bonfire. So i told her maybe. well about five minutes later she woke up and anounced she was leaving. So i told her i was probably goin to go hang out with my sister and some friends at this guys land. well i could tell she was mad. but i decided i really didnt wanna drive a half hour to get tot his land. It wasnt late at all really it twas 1045 on a saturday night. so i turn around before i even left my neighbor hood and went home.

I text her and told her i was staying in and she said i "whatever". So i called and we argued for a half and hour. Now she is mad at me cause i didnt even think to invite her. even though she said she waned to get home. And even though she was falling asleep at my place!?????

[rguruee]

You stay up all night worrying about her. You analyze her every thought and mood swing. You also calculate everything you do based on how she will react. And you're not getting any... How is this fun for you?
She likes you because she knows that you'll be around pretty much whenever she wants (emotionally and physically). Sorry dude, no matter what she says she's just not that in to you. Also, texting and calling her ex all day. WTF? Let it go, you deserve better.

[Gigabitch]

Yes, you should have invited her, even if you knew she had no interest in doing anything. It's just good manners.

Do you think she's crying about other stuff and just telling her mom it's about school and work?