well things ended up working themselves out....i went to see her this past weekend and it was great....we had a great time out of the bedroom as well as in it...i lost my virginity and we made love for over an hour....not bad for a first time if i do say so myself....i really didnt expect it to happen this soon....over the weekend she had given me head and i told her i wanted to return the favor....while i was eating her out i could tell she REALLY liked it and after about 2 mins she pulled me up and said "Baby, I want you to make love to me"...and it was perfect from then on. i didnt have to ask so i knew she really wanted to and she wasnt just doin it because i wanted....i tried my best to pleasure her and after about 5-10 mins i gave her the first orgasm of her life...it was amazing....thanks for all your advice.