Quote Originally Posted by cccchase View Post
guess what? I went out to lunch with her today, (after I called her)... and we agreed to slowly work to repair our relationship. Both your assumptions have lead you to elaborate on the notion that not talking to her is the best possible route I could have taken. When in fact you both were wrong! Dont feel bad sometimes we are all wrong. Good luck helping others in the future. Keep trying!
I don't really feel my assumptions were wrong-- from what you posted it sounded like she didn't want to get back with you. So you had to convince her to. Just realize, getting her back is actually the easy part. Rebuilding the relationship especially after a breach of trust is the hard part. Good luck with that.

Until then, it might be a good idea to avoid those strip clubs.