How to cleanse the mind?

[IndiReloaded]

When you flush a turd down the toilet, do you continue to think about it?

Wipe your ass a final time by blocking his ability to contact you, mental flush, wash up & think no more of it.

[Illusional]

i think about the turd only if it gets stuck and then tries to crawl back up the toilet. it's then off to the plunger where i can finally relax and drink more beers.

why the hell are people so damn clingy??

raverboy

[Bo]

^^^ some girls never listen.. like her and coco.

raverboy

Yeah well most of us know that it's much easier said than done, especially when it comes to something like this. We were very, VERY close. I'm hoping willpower will knock it out...lol

Stop thinking so much about this and just do what you need to do...time will heal you.

That's what everyone says, I guess it does though and maybe i'm a bit impatient. It seems like every time i start getting over him, he starts to realize that he really does want me and sort of creeps his way back into my life. And of course i let him do it...but i do need to just stop thinking about him.
I've been seeing someone else for a while now and it helps to realize there are better guys out there, i just always seem to pick the losers.

[Illusional]

^^^^ it's easier than you think. you just think too much.

raverboy

[megaton2002]

Thinking too much of it is not HEALTHY,go swimming do 1000 meter everyday instead just put your mind into thinking how to reach other the end of the pool for each lap.

[IndiReloaded]

Yeah well most of us know that it's much easier said than done, especially when it comes to something like this. We were very, VERY close.

Please. Three years, and a turd. Big deal. So you emotionally vented and had sex. Everyone does this, that's not very, very close. Its not like you went off to the wars together & watched your platoon get shredded while you saved each other's lives. Or had children together, or built something of any lasting significance together.

Holy drama. Your mind is your own worst enemy. Turn it off already.

[Illusional]

thinking is overrated. just say **** it because regardless of how much you either think or don't think about things, problems will always surround your life.

raverboy

[shandy]

Yeah well most of us know that it's much easier said than done, especially when it comes to something like this. We were very, VERY close. I'm hoping willpower will knock it out...lol



That's what everyone says, I guess it does though and maybe i'm a bit impatient. It seems like every time i start getting over him, he starts to realize that he really does want me and sort of creeps his way back into my life. And of course i let him do it...but i do need to just stop thinking about him.
I've been seeing someone else for a while now and it helps to realize there are better guys out there, i just always seem to pick the losers.

well, you've got to decide if you want to bear with this sh*t anymore. you are responsible for your life and healthy state of mind. if you decide you've had enough, tell him not to contact you again, that you need time alone or are busy. put your foot down ! say no !

maybe he doesn't know that he's contacting you is bugging you. so to be fair to him, you need to tell him how you feel. if you don't, and he keeps bugging you, you are allowing yourself to be tortured, and getting angry at him for nothing, when a simple 'no' could have prevented it all.

[danica]

It IS very much easier said than done when it's our own selves in the situation. Much easier to give the advice but that doesn't mean the advice is wrong either.

Cleansing the mind? Hypnosis ... It's been my life saver the past half a year ... doesn't make your problems go poof but it's very real and can redirect your unhealthy thoughts.

[Illusional]

^^^ it's only seems easier to those of the weaker minds because people who have strong minds practice what they preach. i'm not at all saying that i will give everyone a piece of my mind, i'm just saying the truth.

raverboy

[Lozenger]

1) Break all contact - delete their number, msn, email ect - as you are about to do it, read the horrible texts he sent you and how he said you mean nothing to him. Say to yourself "And now, you mean nothing to me." Press delete. Store all photos at the back of the wardrobe - or in a file you are least likely to look at. Better yet, get rid of the ones of just you and him.

2) Keep yourself busy - set yourself little goals, concentrate on each task at hand, exercise, write about your experiences, talk to friends and go out with them and continue to see that someone else and say to yourself what you like about them.

Don't mention the other person, don't contact them - just do whatever keeps you happy aside from speaking to them.

Forgive yourself and forgive him - but learn from this as an experience and move on to a more exciting and fulfilling future, hopefully with this new person

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