Quote Originally Posted by alovehangoverr View Post
Put myself in your shoes? Ok. If I were in your shoes I probably wouldn't waste a year trying to change someones opinion of me.. especially not the way you're going about it. Seriously-- all you're doing is making yourself look MORE desperate, MORE stalkerish, MORE creepy, etc.

Really man, let it go.

Does it really matter what this one person who's leaving uni that you'll probably never connect with again thinks of you? Does it really matter what she says to other people about you [realistically, you're giving yourself too much credit here-- the only reason she's probably talking about you at this point is because you're being a total creep trying to convince her of something she's unlikely to believe.]

Want some respect back? Then get some.. by letting this shit go and moving the **** on.




Agreed. You're the only one worrying about this this much. If you backed off and played it cool, you'd come across much cooler than you are. You are acting like you care way too much, and to the rest of humanity who has picked up on typical social cues, you seem desperate.

Just take a look in the mirror. Stop fighting this loosing battle and move on. Your actions are speaking louder than your words, and that's what we are trying to tell you. Seriously, listen to the advice you came here to get.