My gf is hanging out with her ex.

[misombra]

it's a nice theory, but it would not work. not for me anyway. it would create more problems and arguments, not solve them.

[Sonrisa]

i thing the GF was not supposed to tell OP about date with EX. why did she mention it? out of spite?

[Gigabitch]

If my husband went to his ex to talk out our problems I'd go nuclear.

You can do better, zombie.

[Sonrisa]

but we are not talking about heterosexual couple keep in mind

[Junket]

Indig.


Stop.

[Sonrisa]

yes.



sir.

[zombie_loo89]

but we are not talking about heterosexual couple keep in mind

why does it matter?
a relationships a relationship.

and i am pissed she went to her ex to talk about problems she could have talked to me about. it's a slap in the face.

[Gigabitch]

She's trying to upset the power balance in your relationship. She doesn't have your best interests in mind.

[Sonrisa]

how old are you two?

[Junket]

20, 21?
______

[zombie_loo89]

Yeah, I'm just not the type of person to tell someone they can't hang out with someone else. And I don't know if there was ever a power balance.

I think we have a good balance with everything else in our relationship, but she does have power over me. I just don't know. It's not fair to me that she's pursuing this ex that she talks a lot of shit about. And of course I'm gone for the summer so I'm sure her ex waited til I went back home for the summer to make that move. This situations messed up.

[zombie_loo89]

how old are you two?

I'm 19, she's 20.

[Sonrisa]

could you be overreacting?

[Sonrisa]

good guess Fras.

[zombie_loo89]

I just think there's exes with good intention and exes with bad intentions. Until I meet this ex of hers I wont know..