Originally Posted by
questiongirl
No, but he has his Unique point of views which intellectually stimulate me more than most people. Yes, I admit he’s a weird person in ordinary life, but I also have to say he’s very intellectual, speaks 4 languages fluently, growing up in different countries so he always have interesting stories to tell and see things differently, composes music, designs sophisticated software, very knowledgeable about history, culture….Spiritually, he’s always trying to improve himself as a person. So, being with him brings the good qualities out of me: like I always feel the need to learn, to think and to improve myself. Wouldn’t you appreciate a friend like that??
Sure, I love diverse people and try to hang out with as many intriguing people as I desire. In fact, most of my friends speak several different languages, do some type of musical art or fine arts and have great historical and cultural information to educate me. However, if any of them start to behave like your friend I would say "f*** it" to them. It's the only way some people learn to change.
Your original questions say otherwise about your true intentions of this relationship. Are you telling me that you would like to hang around a man that tells you he is not into you, that he feels something is missing, etc. just so that you can be with a diverse intellect? Will you continue to put up with his drama so that you can talk philosophy?
If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~ Marilyn Monroe