I'm female.. it's in our nature to seek out social problems and try to solve them.
Your information was lacking and left much to the imagination... and so another 'female' trait came into play --- filling in the gaps.
Also, I have developed a bit of an affinity towards you as I have towards others who frequent this forum... so there was a genuine interest to want to help improve the quality of your relationship by offering suggestions.
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen