Please help!!

[Grim-Life]

innocence there is one MAJOR fact that MUST!!!! be realised
GUYS WILL BE GUYS

even tho we have a knack for the cave man instincts that we so love and addore ANYTHING THAT WE DONT UNDERSTAND FREAKS THE HELL OUT OF US!!!!!!

and so in a reaction we either

try and hide it by being tough
kill it
or ignore it and just hope it go away

your guy may be hideing or scared you shouldnt let it bother you

and dont be in such a hurry to grow up imaturity may be ignorance but ignorance is bliss

[Domnuu]

hey im new on the forum but my opinion is let him know how you feel and tell him if things start getting weird you can end it there (just to say it no1 ever really goes through with that) to make him comfortable you sound like a sweet girl and if he isnt willing to try becuase of work than you should really just be blunt and talk to him about it or find someone who diserves you

[Reign]

kill it

LOL so that just made me laugh but sadly it is true.

Take your time. Chances are its not exactly a plus in his mind you guys work together. Though it may be odd he could be running a scenario in his mind where u say no and tell all your friends etc etc. Im sure you wouldnt do this nor would many other girls do so in the intention of being mean but it sounds like he doesnt know what to do so as was said hes either gonna try and kill something or hide. My guess is hes hiding Hes doing what he knows to do best play it cool.

[Innocence]

Thanx again you guys!!!

I can't tell you how good this feels to get all of this off my chest and having honest, replies that have really helped me out.

And I will take the advise of wait it out, we have only known each other for 4 or so months, so a little bit longer....I think I can wait.....I'll just go nuts in the meantime!!!

But....unfortunately....I have another delema today...I was doing my usual...I told him he was gorgeous...and he goes...and I quote..."stop it, your embarrassing me"...now I don't know what that means!?!?!...why would he say that?!?!!?!?....it's really upsetting when something like that happens I compliment him all the time, trying to hint to him that I like him...well my hinting is more like...wacking him on the head yelling at him "I LIKE YOU" but thats another story

His only compliment to me was "I'm more attractive then my friends"...wow...what a compliment...I'm so stoked...as you can see..I'm being sarcastic!!

Anyway...I better be headed...thanx again you guys!!

Love
Pissed off/ Confused/ Upset Innocence xxx

[Grim-Life]

sorry inocence but i can no longer give you any more advice my newest post will tell you why but i GIVE BAD ADVICE and i dont want to give off any more sorry

[Innocence]

Hey Grim

Whats happened?...you don't give bad advise!!...yours is really helpful!!...whats going on with you?...what happened?

Innocence xxx

[Grim-Life]

mby i just over reacted at time i posted that lol heh problems with the friends as you have figured out

if you realy want my advice on the previous asked question then here it is

the guy is 18 right well guy tend to get embarrised around a girl for more than than the reasons i am going to state (JUST REMEMEBER THAT OK THESE ARENT THE ONLY REASONS THERE ARE MORE I JUST DONT KNOW THEM)

1. a guy can get embarrised if a girl says stuff like that because they like the girl
2. the guy could have a crush on some one else and think that the person he is crushing on may think that you and him have something going on
3. he could be kidding
4. mby something is happening and your where the first person he snaped at usualy we hurt the ones we love dureing time of sadness and not realise it

now keep in mind these are not the only reasons i just cant think of any more due to the fact that i am haveing troubles of my own right now so im a bit confused

but any way hope this helps and just dont take things too seriously
CHILDHOOD IS A TIME TO GROW, BUT WE ALL WANT TO GROW UP TO FAST AND AS ADULTS WE LOOK BACK AND SAY WHY THE HELL DIDN'T I CHERISH THOSE YEARS

[Innocence]

Thank you Grim!!!

And btw - your friends are going to realise there mistake, and they are going to come crawling back!! Your a great guy!!!

[Grim-Life]

And btw - your friends are going to realise there mistake, and they are going to come crawling back!! Your a great guy!!!

plz stop my head is going to become to big
*every one stops*
I ONLY SUGGESTED NOW CLAP!!!

thanks alot

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[Innocence]

If only you and 'my guy' could get together,....you could finally teach him a few things!!

INCLUDING HOW TO TAKE A COMPLIMENT!!! :p ..if only he would take a compliment like you did...instead of going "stop it..your embarrassing me!!"

I wouldn't mind seeing, 'stop it...I'm getting a big head' on my screen!!

lol..you crack me up grim!!

[Grim-Life]

ok now im realy getting a big head im not going to see my screen any more

but any way to be serous (if thats posibal)

he is a guy and guy will do guy things and if that means say a bad thing THEY WILL DO THAT

however it depends on the type of guy WHERE NOT ALL ALIKE least i think i didnt come from a guy creation factory AH so thats why i have the barcode on the back of my neck pitty and i was so hopeing i could be an alien for jupiter or mars

[GBRaul]

"Stop it you're embarassing me". That in my opinion is a VERY common remark from a shy guy who is trying/pretending to be as "outgoing" as he can. (You two were online right?) So I think this guy is hiding behind his screen and probably thought "Hey! Let me try something new!" And so he said that. (He's a shy guy if I didn't miss anything!)

He's probably not irritated or anything. If he were, you would probably tell from how he treats you at work. The fact that you are laying hints here and there and he is not responding to them negatively probably means that he has SOME feelings for you. Work from there! Good luck!

p.s. Have you asked him out yet?

[Innocence]

Hey Everyone, me again!!

Just keeping you all informed on my story ...btw - GBRaul - we are online, whiel we speak...we are pretty nervous around each other when we speak face to face, and no I haven't asked him out yet, I'm too shy, and the way he acts around me, I don't think he likes me that way :S

Anyway...today....he was speaking to me...I know..SHOCKS-VILLE...he was speaking face to face with me!! :o ...and he lifted his hands over his head, stretching, and his shirt road up....I was getting a bit hot and bothered...and he kept doing it over and over again...anyway .. .after we had finished speaking, I messeged him and said "btw - thanx for the glimps of your hot stomach!!" .. or something like that!....and he goes 'you mean my fat stomach' ...anyway it went on like that, and I called myself a perve and he agreed..jokingly...but still...the whole point of this...story...is ...

FAR OUT..I WANTED TO LICK HIS STOMACH SO BADLY!!!!!

anyway...I better be off....cold shower time I think ...its a bit hot in here

Luv
Sexually Frustrated Innocence xxx

[jasonusa]

I may as well say this coz its pretty obvious.

THE GUY LIKES YOU!!!!!!!!

Im male and shy and it doesnt matter how many compliments I recieve I find it almost impossible to ask someone out.
shy people are VERY self-concious, and normally are not used to compliments, what he said was merely a shy reaction to it.

This sounds like it has bags of potential.
He is NOT going to turn you down, I wouldnt if I was him.
GO FOR IT!

[GBRaul]

Yeah! Atta boy jasonusa! I was trying to tell you that Innocence... just go for it. If not you might regret it. Don't take too long to make your first move. It's like buying shoes. If you see a design you like and it fits well, BUY IT! Don't hesitate!