Originally Posted by
dbrckovi
If, after all I have said and done for her, she won't be able to come back then it's better for us to be apart. I know this kind of honesty would work on me, but time will tell if she'll ever understand what I was saying, and what I'm willing to offer.
If she knows you're willing to wait forever to see if she changes her mind, she'll allow you to keep waiting and thinking and wondering.
Originally Posted by
dbrckovi
Until she clears her conscious too, I won't have anything intimate with her.
Are you saying you will indeed take her back if she "clears her conscious"?!
It was only a 2 month relationship, correct? It seems like your scared to be alone and still trying to hold on to her, even if she plays with your emotions.
Originally Posted by
dbrckovi
Thanks but I won't cut all contact becouse I know how hard it is for someone to ignore me.
I just won't do that to her. That week when she was on a vacation, I was in hell just becouse I didn't know what's going on. If she told me what was going on immediately
I'd be crushed but at least I'd know what I should think and in which direction I should go.
By not cutting most contact with her, it's going to show her you still care and she's going to continue to confues you with all of her unknown emotions.
Originally Posted by
dbrckovi
I won't initiate anything but I will briefly answer her calls and messages (maybe with one or two hours delay just to make her worry), if for nothing else then to show that I'm still alive.
Again, going to show her you still care. If that's what your going for fine. But that contradicts some of the things you have said then. Either you agree to be friends, or lovers, or not talk at all. There is rarely a happy medium between those.
To me it seems you're trying to get her thinking, and wanting you. If she knows you'll continue to answer her and talk to her whether she thinks about another guy or not, she'll be thinking about other guys. It seems you're just going to let her walk all over you and still continue to be nice, and talk to her upon her request.
And as for your other posts and saying you blame yourself, there is no way any of that could have been your fault other than saying you're not together yet still talking and answering her.
Never regret something from your past, everything happens for a reason.