what does God expect of me???

**Gribble** · 12-10-09, 11:50 AM

Hah! Nice edit. Though you've made me look like the homophobe now.

**CocoChanel** · 12-10-09, 11:53 AM

Ignore the ignorance in some of the responses.

Save yourself for marriage dear.
Don't give in to temptation.
If this is something you're trying to overcome... Pray about it.

**Mish** · 12-10-09, 11:57 AM

Originally Posted by Gribble

Hah! Nice edit. Though you've made me look like the homophobe now.

Sorry Grib, I changed it to his original line of thought so your comment stands

**rateyes** · 12-10-09, 12:01 PM

Originally Posted by Gribble

Your god wants you to give up wordly pleasures for the chance at some big reward in the afterlife.

Hah.

Screw her. Screw her good and hard. Enjoy yourself now. If you must believe in something like that, fine. But don't waste your time on this Earth bowing and scraping. Take everything you can get out of life, because no matter what you believe the reality is this life's almost certainly all you've got. Don't be a fool.

but what if following God is a good and fun life to him? how are you to judge whats fun and whats "lifving life to the fullest"? Not everyone finds ****ing every girl, partying and being dangerous, to be living life to the fullest.

stay true to your morals..if you wanna wait til marriage tell her and hopefully she understands, if she doesnt, then are you willing to risk your morals for her? also the Bible tells to court those of equal yoke, so if your that religious, then ou need to ask yourself that too. I for one, find the "waiting til marriage" to be a bit extreme, i beleive the Bible intended it to be for your lover, married or not, if your intentions are to be married(just not whoring around)

**mylifeis4love** · 12-10-09, 12:22 PM

Re: Gay people are the root of all evil

IMHO, Gay people are the result of lack of opportunities from girls and pressure from other gay people into giving up the search. I'm facing similar problems now and may turn gay soon if I run out of ideas..

. If I try something out of the blue, I'm a creep. If I don't try anything I'm a dumbass. If I try everything thats tried and tested, I'm a sex robot. Screw this thing I'm turning gay ... I got a guy interested in me and keeps on brainwashing me into turning gay.. I hate my life.. If I turn gay everyone hates me. If I don't turn gay everyone hates me.. what's with the godforsaken world without a system..

**CocoChanel** · 12-10-09, 12:26 PM

Stop derailing the thread. Stick to the thread topic.

**ProudPatriot** · 12-10-09, 12:35 PM

I definitly see where your coming from. I think if you love someone, you should give your whole self to them.
Do you truely believe that this is the girl you want to spend the rest of your life with?
If she understands and respects your faith and she is not pressureing you, then you know she loves you too. But, if she is pressuring you or if you can see she is bothered by this or impatient, I think she will not last forever.
I am Christian and I did not wait till marriage. But I have been with the same man for over 5 years and I love him dearly. I believe if God knows you are truely in love, he will understand why you did not wait.

**Gribble** · 12-10-09, 12:36 PM

Coco, sweetie, the OP is dead and gone.

**chump4u** · 12-10-09, 12:39 PM

Originally Posted by Gribble

Coco, sweetie, the OP is dead and gone.

.
Dead and gone, or murdered and buried in a cornfield?

**doppelgaenger** · 12-10-09, 12:46 PM

God doesn't want you to have sex at all. He doesn't want you to contaminate teh world.

**IndiReloaded** · 12-10-09, 01:12 PM

what does God expect of me?

Wrong question. So any answer you get will be meaningless.

**Jay T** · 12-10-09, 03:08 PM

what does God expect of me???

As Indi said, wrong question. All of us here are human and cannot speak for God.

Gay people are the root of all evil, how dare you not confirm that??

Look, don't come in here asking for advice and then go confronting the morals and values of others. It's not a very good way to make people want to help you, on top of that, it's just plain rude and immature. Don't you think that you owe it to yourself to be a better person than that?

If my opinion counts for anything: be true to YOURSELF, if you really think that God wants you to save yourself for marriage, then so be it. Explain to your girlfriend that you'd be more comfortable waiting. However, keep in mind that God just wants you to be happy, and that the only person's opinion that matters is the one who looks back at you through the mirror in the morning.

**thrillaveza** · 12-10-09, 03:53 PM

there is nothing wrong with pre-marital(sp?) sex in my opinion. if you love her, why not? as long as you are careful.

**Sanctuary** · 12-10-09, 05:00 PM

Follow this flowchart and you shall not sin.

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**Aeradalia** · 12-10-09, 06:55 PM

Originally Posted by mylifeis4love

IMHO, Gay people are the result of lack of opportunities from girls and pressure from other gay people into giving up the search. I'm facing similar problems now and may turn gay soon if I run out of ideas..

. If I try something out of the blue, I'm a creep. If I don't try anything I'm a dumbass. If I try everything thats tried and tested, I'm a sex robot. Screw this thing I'm turning gay ... I got a guy interested in me and keeps on brainwashing me into turning gay.. I hate my life.. If I turn gay everyone hates me. If I don't turn gay everyone hates me.. what's with the godforsaken world without a system..

You can't "turn" gay. You either are or you aren't.

I can no more stop liking women than a straight man can stop liking women.

The rest of what you said is utter gibberish.

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