View Poll Results: Do you think it's important to have sex with someone before you marry them?

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  • No. It's against my religion. I'm male.

    1 1.75%
  • No. It's against my religion. I'm female.

    2 3.51%
  • No. Even though it's NOT against my religion. I'm male.

    3 5.26%
  • No. Even though it's NOT against my religion. I'm female.

    3 5.26%
  • Yes. It's not against my religion. I'm male.

    24 42.11%
  • Yes. It's not against my religion. I'm female.

    11 19.30%
  • Yes. Even though it's against my religion. I'm male.

    12 21.05%
  • Yes. Even though it's against my religion. I'm female.

    1 1.75%
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    I think is very important. For me, at least.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SmartAlx View Post
    It's there, just without the "Even if."
    'Even if' changes the meaning, at least it was the best I could come up with.

    I'm referring to that crazy cult where sex is a requirement.

    ???

    Ah.. never mind.
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    I'd test drive a car too before I bought it.

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    All I know is I have really, really, really wanted to have sex with a woman...then I do and it's crap. Mostly, the opposite is true...but it can happen. Sometimes you simply aren't compatible that way. Infact I've even had illadvised sex when I really wasn't that into them, and the sex has been superb.

    I'd not sign a lifetime agreement without knowing the "strokin'" is good.

    And if you're both virgins and the sex ain't that great I suspect something deep down is going to tell you anyway.

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    Sex is great... There is nothing else to say.. Sex is universal and goes beyond belief, culture, race and, sometime, feelings... Sex is bigger than marriage.. Sex is a part of who we are and how we think..

    In conclussion: I think it is very, very, very, very important to have sex... Also before a marriage
    Feelings are powerful things - they override our minds and our bodies, as if trying to control us. We are but mere vessels for them to carry out their will.

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    God damn it. I hate this subject. I ****ing hate it. I just decided to take a huge dump on this thread because you people aren't interested in talking about anything else.

    I must attest my growing insanity - do you folks honestly find no greater depth to life than trivial sexual taboos? Oh wow, sex and marriage. Yippee skippity ****in' doo daaaaaaaaaaa. I've had more intellectual conversations with my wall. As a matter of fact, I think he's saying something right now.
    Last edited by doppelgaenger; 05-11-09 at 02:32 AM.

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    Only eight options? OP obviously forgot the other very important choices like:

    9. No, it's against my Religion of Catholicism, I'm a male aged 18-21, born in Italy and my father was and Alcoholic
    10. No, it's against my Religion of Catholicism, I'm a male aged 18-21, born in Italy and my mother was and Alcoholic
    11. No, it's against my Religion of Catholicism, I'm a male aged 18-21, born in Italy and neither of my parents were alcoholics
    12. No, it's against my Religion of Catholicism, I'm a male aged 18-21, born in Spain and my father was and Alcoholic........

    And so on


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    Doppey's post screams sexual frustration.

    I have a cucumber if you're interested.

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    Go have sex. Hell doesn't exist. It's just a form of mind control.

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    Quote Originally Posted by girl68 View Post
    I have a cucumber if you're interested.
    Would you mind dildoing my asshole for me?

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    I think some kind of commitment is important, but not necessarily marriage. I'm not really a fan of one-night-stand type things.

    Although I'm probably highly biased. I mean, I couldn't get married even if I wanted to. At least, not in America.

    Some other countries allow it though. Which raises the interesting question. If you marry in another country, does the marriage legally remain if you move back to your original country?

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    Quote Originally Posted by doppelgaenger View Post
    God damn it. I hate this subject. I ****ing hate it. I just decided to take a huge dump on this thread because you people aren't interested in talking about anything else.

    I must attest my growing insanity - do you folks honestly find no greater depth to life than trivial sexual taboos? Oh wow, sex and marriage. Yippee skippity ****in' doo daaaaaaaaaaa. I've had more intellectual conversations with my wall. As a matter of fact, I think he's saying something right now.

    lol ;P
    this is a love and relationship forum
    sex and marriage are pretty key elements 'round here

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    Quote Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose View Post
    sex and marriage are pretty key elements 'round here
    There was a discussion on here the other day about being in a relationship and nevering having sex. Apparently it works for some people, but I have no idea what tribe they are from, sure as hell wasn't mine.

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    It's amazing how much sex controls the decisions we make.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CocoChanel View Post
    It's amazing how much sex controls the decisions we make.
    I see no problem

    "What you really fear is inside yourself. You fear your own power.
    You fear your own anger, the drive to do great and terrible things."


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