My Girl

[Mish]

Just curious. Is she first born or not?

She's a middle sibling.


Last night I introduced her to my mum. I took them both out to a concert which they both really enjoyed, they both have a soft spot for music (one of the other reasons why I'm really attracted to this girl, my ex had no appreciation for good music what so ever and as an amateur musician it bothered me). Anyway last night went really well. They got to know each other and they liked each other, I think. I didn't expect that. My mum can sometimes go into these long pauses especially when she's enjoying the music and in the past I had episodes with exs who'd say stuff like "Your mum didn't talk to me then, then and then, she must really hate me, why does she hate me so bad? Your mum is a mean woman!" and then no matter what I'd say would change their mind "You're just saying that to make me feel better". None of this sort of garbage from this girl, she showed a lot of patience and understanding and she didn't need to be told that a pause in conversation doesn't mean that the other person hates her. Her capacity of positive energy is enormous.

You know, I'm slowly starting to change my mind about women, she is setting a new standard for me of how a good woman behaves. I suddenly don't feel so bad about parting ways with those other girls, I used to think maybe it was just me, that I'm hard to get along with but after her I realize they were just slime in comparison.

I'm so glad this evening went well. I wasn't sure how my parents (or my mum in this case) would respond to her, but so far all was good. I think introducing her on a one by one basis is a good idea.

[misombra]

good for you! don't fuk it up.

[doppelgaenger]

Живели!!!!!

[Chlorine]

Mish------She sounds like a great girl - I can see how a positive attitude would be a welcome change. Happy for you!

[Only-virgins]

Everybody looks for something else I guess. I bet her taste in music would piss me off. Good for you mish but I would look for happy pills in her shelves.

[Charlie Boy II]

i can only think of her as "C" - the less attractive one.

[Only-virgins]

i can only think of her as "C" - the less attractive one.

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[doppelgaenger]

You know, I'm slowly starting to change my mind about women, she is setting a new standard for me of how a good woman behaves. I suddenly don't feel so bad about parting ways with those other girls, I used to think maybe it was just me, that I'm hard to get along with but after her I realize they were just slime in comparison.

This is good. The same thing happened to me over the course of the past year with my girlfriend. So I can assure you, you've found a good catch.

My girlfriend will meet my family this summer. I don't know how well she will relate to my mother. It is an interesting topic. When I was in Serbia, I felt like I related well to her father, but unfortunately I didn't speak enough Serbian and he didn't speak enough English for us to have a truly meaningful conversation. However, there was the impression I had that he is similar to me. My girlfriend also pointed out how I am like him in a few ways.

Is your girlfriend close to her family? If she's really close to her mother, I'd say marry the girl. This is how my girlfriend is.

[bluesummer]

Congrats Mish, it always gives me the warm fuzzies when I hear about people getting with people that truly insire them and make them happy.

[Mish]

Is your girlfriend close to her family? If she's really close to her mother, I'd say marry the girl. This is how my girlfriend is.

Yeh, she's close to her family. I also found this pattern with women, how they treat their parents is usually a good indication of how they will treat their partner. So far I'm yet to be disappointed with her. I'm glad I picked her over all of the others. She was the right choice.

[bluesummer]

So far I'm yet to be disappointed with her. I'm glad I picked her over all of the others. She was the right choice.

Thank god, Mish. If you'd been thinking along these lines:

i can only think of her as "C" - the less attractive one.

you may have made a poor choice. Good on you for thinking with your head (the big one). Seems to be a hard thing for a lot of men.