The problem is with you. Not her. So why think the grass is going to be greener on the other side? Even if you do move on and start seeing other women, are you going to start all your first dates asking, "So listen.. I really need you to last 30 or more minutes in the sack."I'm wondering if i should leave her or stay. I do love her but i'm finding myself wanting someone more, someone better for me. I'm still with her and yet i feel guilty even thinking about leaving her, but i want to be happy.