How long before sexual aspects should be introduced?

[tufty]

i have no idea what a sophomore is but i am guessing ur underage to the hokey cokey.

anyways, twiddling and fumbling are a prelude to sex, so i would, if i were you, put it off for as long as possible. With raging hormones from both sides the more u twiddle the more u want to be twiddled and the more likely you would want more than twiddling once twiddling isnt enough..

i like that word - twiddle

[vashti]

A sophomore is 10th grade, and about 15 years old.

Anyway, I agree with tufty - once the sexual activities start, they move progressively towards sex. If you are serious about wanting to maintain your virginity for a few more years, you might want to slow it down. You won't make it at this rate.

[Perryville]

Like Girl68 said, try "making out', and other forms of romance first, then proceed at a pace that is comfortable for you, as well as her. There is no hard and fast rule about sex. It will happen , when it is time for it to happen. Remember, that like most other activities, the more you practice, the fewer mistakes you will make when the magic moment arrives........Good Luck!!!

[Soulchild21]

Like Girl68 said, try "making out', and other forms of romance first, then proceed at a pace that is comfortable for you, as well as her. There is no hard and fast rule about sex. It will happen , when it is time for it to happen. Remember, that like most other activities, the more you practice, the fewer mistakes you will make when the magic moment arrives........Good Luck!!!

I have had no problem at the thought of fingering her but I've had second thoughts about oral. I'll be sure to take it more slowly. Thanks for the advice everyone!