I need help in the bedroom

[Chupacabras]

Whatever you say.

[Junket]

Yes, the shower! You can have so much fun in the shower.

I suspect you just haven't found the right guy yet. Are the guys you're sleeping with encouraging you to have more fun? If they're pretty inexperienced as well, they might get a little freaked out and insecure if you appear to have more knowledge than they do (don't worry- guys grow out of this).

I hate the shower, it just dries everything out.

[vashti]

I hate the shower, it just dries everything out.

Ditto that. Same for hot tubs.

[Junket]

Now if only there were a shower/tub of lube...

[vashti]

Maybe you can use lube in the shower?

Never mind. I prefer it natural.

[mikechudej]

Why should you be shy in the bedroom??? It's just the 2 of you, right???

Get over it and start follow your instinct.

It's like when you're listening to music that move you, close your eyes, move your hip to his tune.

When it's your turn just do the same move to your own rhythm