What does "taking it slow" mean to you?

[vashti]

No. don't ask - she'll tell you when she wants you to know.

Taking it slow (to me) means she doesn't want to have sex with you immediately, and she also doesn't want you hogging up all her free time and becoming a cling-on. Don't act like a needy, whiny boy.

[takingitslow]

No. don't ask - she'll tell you when she wants you to know.

Taking it slow (to me) means she doesn't want to have sex with you immediately, and she also doesn't want you hogging up all her free time and becoming a cling-on. Don't act like a needy, whiny boy.

I think you're on the right track with that. She has told me she doesn't want to be "the clingy girlfriend". I can assume now that was the problem, or maybe one of the problems with her last relationship.