Giga, what doesn't make sense is that she never once tried to fight for the marriage. Problems arose, she let them get worse and even seemed to use the worsening situation as the backbone for her reasons to leave. What doesn't make sense is why she chose to be single over being with me. I never tried to control her, or change her and I did nothing wrong to her that wasn't completely on accident and not really all that terrible to begin with. She told me of things that needed changing and I changed them. Then she kept adding on things that needed to change until I couldn't change fast enough and after she was gone she revealed the supposed "real" things that I should have naturally known to change without being told. Then she told me it was over and she wasn't going to give me a chance to change those things because the fact I didn't do it on my own, without any sort of prompting, meant I never loved her.
Being single is the absolute worst thing in the world, why did she think that was somehow better? How could ANYONE think that is somehow better than being with someone? I'd choose an imperfect person over nobody any day of the week.