Does 16 into 35 (+?) go?

**Cbrider** · 17-03-10, 10:04 AM

You win!!!

**Cbrider** · 17-03-10, 10:05 AM

Originally Posted by LailaK

I honestly don't want to think about what a 35+ year old would want with a 16 year old.

Ever watch "To Catch a Predator"...?

They just want to educate them on safe sex and make sure they are being careful. Well that's what they say anyway....

**Doc Durian** · 17-03-10, 01:26 PM

Originally Posted by Vashti

It wouldn't be in MY house... not for the benefit of a 35 year old pervert.

fair enough, but if the genders were reversed?

Originally Posted by LailaK

I smell a troll. Or at least a pervert.

I honestly don't want to think about what a 35+ year old would want with a 16 year old.

That's sick.

It was accepted in history when there was marriage involved. Cougars marrying 16 year old boys wouldn't have been (I'd guess).

Now the roles have been reversed.

Makes you really wonder about social values, taboos, and gender equality.

**kisswithafist** · 17-03-10, 02:43 PM

ok well i dont think its sick to be honest. here in the uk perhaps if they were walking down the street and the girl looked noticably 16 then they would get a few looks but girls over here are a lot older than their years at 16.

at 16 girs have children, live alone and even marry. it depends on the two people i say.

ok perhaps the parents of the girl wouldnt be pleased but they couldnt do anything about it.

**vashti** · 17-03-10, 07:02 PM

Originally Posted by Doc Durian

fair enough, but if the genders were reversed?.

It would still be unacceptable.

Originally Posted by kisswithafist

ok perhaps the parents of the girl wouldnt be pleased but they couldnt do anything about it.

To be honest, for a girl at 16 to be remotely interested in a 35 year old man would indicate she came out of a seriously f-cked up house, so you are probably right that her parents would have lost control by age 16. However, in a house where parents have done a good job raising their children, they (the parents) retain a lot of power at this age and even older, so YES, I would intervene.

**kisswithafist** · 17-03-10, 10:14 PM

i completely disagree i dont think that it indicates the parents have done a bad job at all, i grant you 16 and 35 is a little extreme, and the point i tried to make was the parents could intervene but if the young lady had her heart set on it then they actually couldnt stop it, it may cause fall out but legally the parents wouldnt have a leg to stand on.

i have always gone for older men, when i was 18 i went for a date with a man of 40, it wouldnt have gone anywhere as he was a little posh for me,ha and very full on, but he was a nice man, we had lots to talk about and it was nice company. and i tell you for a fact my parents have raised me fantastic, the best parents anyone could ask for, they did everything for me, also gave me responsibillty and also when i was younger i didnt do anything that i could get into trouble for because i respected them too much. but i like older men and any mistakes i make are my own not theirs.

im now 19 and my boyfriend is 30 and we work amazing together. the boyfriends i have had since turning 16 have been 25-30 and thats my ideal age for a man. and i would never look any younger, i want a boyfriend to know where hes going in life and knows his own mind.

**vashti** · 17-03-10, 10:20 PM

Yeah, but aren't you the girl that doesn't mind being peed on?

**kisswithafist** · 17-03-10, 10:22 PM

ha, i havent tried it but would in a long term relationship, i like to experiment and cant see the harm of it.

**vashti** · 17-03-10, 10:23 PM

No offense, but if I raised a daughter who was okay with that, I would be heartbroken. I would take it as a sign I had done something awfully wrong.

**kisswithafist** · 17-03-10, 10:28 PM

non taken. but what i do in the bedroom and what i consider a turn on has nothing to do with my mum and dad, ha.

i dont understand the link.

**PostBlue** · 19-03-10, 03:49 AM

Im not sure if some people know the definition of pedophilia

the prefix - PEDO: prepubescent child
the suffix - PHILIA: sexual attraction

put it all together and you get a sexual attraction to a prepubescent child
People should know the meaning of some words before using them

**doppelgaenger** · 19-03-10, 05:12 AM

^^ You need to go back to grade school and learn what prefix and suffix mean.

**dewilliams2** · 19-03-10, 05:45 AM

Originally Posted by PostBlue

Im not sure if some people know the definition of pedophilia

the prefix - PEDO: prepubescent child
the suffix - PHILIA: sexual attraction

put it all together and you get a sexual attraction to a prepubescent child
People should know the meaning of some words before using them

Well I suppose you can test the limits of that definition if you'd care to but I think you'd be safer to just date and older woman and then there wouldn't be questions of proper diction....ur call though.

**Doc Durian** · 19-03-10, 05:55 AM

Originally Posted by vashti

It would still be unacceptable.

My mum and dad both expressed deep seated concerns over an 8 year difference but accepted my dedication to it and my right to make the decision/distinction.

It was a mistake, afterall, many years down the road.

But not because of the age difference.

I chose someone incompatible with my principles and beliefs, as I was to hers, and we didn't support one another. We worked against one another instead... ultimately disbanding the arrangement and progressing with our lives in a compatible fashion.

I cherish my great mistake if only that I made it, learnt from it, and became the father of a wonderfully sweet little boy now nearing adulthood.

**vashti** · 19-03-10, 09:45 AM

Okay, doc.... but were you 16? And were you the older or younger partner?

Also, it's different with girls. it just is. (I have one of each.)

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