Go to this thread, OP doesn't know that posting two threads about the same issue might be confusing...

[URL="http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/40245-what-do-i-do-if-my-brother-forbids-me-talk-guy.html"]http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/40245-what-do-i-do-if-my-brother-forbids-me-talk-guy.html[/URL]

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