Originally Posted by
lahnnabell
On the way home we decided that we should do a taco Tuesday night. Later on that evening, her friends came over and suddenly I was shut out. I assumed that because "L" and I had talked about it earlier that day that it was a joint venture. She and her friends came back with margarita mix, tequila, and taco fixings. As they started making margaritas I asked if I could steal a little tequila to which I got the response, "Umm... Maybe we should wait on that." Not understanding exactly what the issue was, I kindly backed off and said, "Oh, well, nevermind. I'm cool."
Was it a joint decision to do a taco night? If yes then your roommate was at fault for shutting you out and you should have a talk to her about this. You should mention that you feel she broke a joint decision the two of you agreed to and that her friends were rude to you which you did not appreciate and see what her response is.
Being honest, straight forward and sticking up for yourself when it's called for are important skills to have that will make sure you won't get mistreated in the future.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~