Odds of girl sleeping in another guy's bed and nothing happened?

[bluesummer]

I've fallen asleep with guy friends and nothing happened. If they're a 'friend' it means I've already pulled them out of the running for anything else anyways, so nothing would happen.

Make it clear to your gf that this behaviour should not repeat itself tho, otherwise it starts to look a lot less innocent.

[lastwish]

The odds depends on the girl. Based on how what you know about her, you should be able to predict.

[lahnnabell]

This has happened to me before as well. Some nights I'd be out with friends and I'd just pass out in the wrong place. No cuddling, no intimate stuff, just me snoring away. My current boyfriend did something like this early on in our relationship. He was chilling out with a female friend of his one night and they were drinking. He couldn't drive her home and so they passed out in the guest house bedroom.

What pissed me off most was the fact that he asked me to call him when I got done partying with my lady friends, didn't matter how late. 3AM rolls around and his phone went straight to voicemail and I knew who he was hanging out with. Yeah. Not okay. I was upset and made the stupid decision to drive home drunk that night. The next day his phone was still off. Finally at 4pm, I got a phone call from him saying that he missed me and that I should come over. So, I did. I also made it very clear to him that I would not stand for anymore of that behavior. It was a case of his being drunk, and forgetting to charge his phone.

All in all, I'd stay clear of sketchy situations like that. It can get very messy very quickly.

[girl68]

^ He should never be that close.

[lastwish]

But the bed isn't that big.

[lahnnabell]

Assuming the guy's erection isn't 3 feet long, he'd have to be pressed up against me for that to be an issue. And getting that close is already a problem. However, the potential for such awkward and potentially harmful situations is yet another reason to avoid this scenario altogether.

[xxazurexx]

Regardless of whether his erection was pointing in my back, if he was a friend I still wouldn't be tempted to do anything.

I have to like a guy sexually/be involved emotionally, to want to have sex with him and I don't view guy friends, sexually.

[girl68]

But the bed isn't that big.

I can sleep comfortably with another person in a queen bed and never touch this person with my pelvis.

[lastwish]

Well, I guess you are not like me who likes to roll around.

[girl68]

Well, I guess you are not like me who likes to roll around.

You roll around enough to push your pelvis on someone?

[lastwish]

You roll around enough to push your pelvis on someone?

Haha. Well, I don't know how close I will go when I am rolling around in my sleep.

[lahnnabell]

I don't know how girls feel about guys, but as a guy, I sometimes feel "calmed" when I'm with girls

ESPECIALLY when I am already tired

I wonder if sleeping (literally, just sleeping) with a girl would be a very peaceful and pleasant experience....? I think it would be

My boyfriend seems to think so. And I sometimes snore. And sometimes I drool on him. And he still loves having me spend the night. I'm lucky He'll throw on some jazz as we're piling into bed, and I'll konk right out. I sleep so soundly next to him.

[medtechprincess]

I've slept with a guy and nothing happened before.
It's totally possible.

And in this situation, if I'm reading it correctly, you guys were broken up anyway, so who cares?
Either you trust her or you don't, and that's on you.

[warriormaiden]

I've done this many of times.

Her admitting it proves her innocence.

[SirWagginston]

I agree with all the ladies here. Although I have never personally been in this situation a few of my friends have. They slept in the same bed with another male/female and nothing happened. They had no reason to lie to me about it since I was totally removed from the situation and didn't know the other person. I'd just move on and not bring it up again. Most importantly though, I wouldn't dwell on it.

Don't you sleep in bed with a woman and have nothing happen almost daily, now?