Sex desensitizing oils?

[girl68]

I also think you have to practice in your alone time. Masterbate until you're almost ready to blow your load then stop, get used to almost cumming then stopping.

During sex I think you have to have her help. When you're getting close, stop or change positions or just slow down. Use the oils sometimes, just not every time. With time and some practice and self control you should be able to help yourself most of the time. You'll never be able to always blow your load at that exact right time.

[Incognito]

clearly not all men are blessed with perfect load blowing skills.

lol!!!!!!!!!

[Incognito]

Here is a little helpful info about male orgasms, how to have multiple and how to not "blow your load" too soon. I posted it a while ago, but it got buried as many threads do. [url]http://www.loveforum.net/intimate-forum/40408-useful-information-regarding-male-orgasms.html[/url]

[TheTooya]

During sex I think you have to have her help.

Thanks Although my gf usually does NOT want me to stop or change positions... she would rather me keep on going and blow my load than go slower.

But, I have always read about Kegels (everywhere), Tried it for a bit, but was apprehensive. I'll try it again though, its going to be a few weeks before my girlfriend anyhow

[girl68]

ummm kegals are for girls! unless you have a vagina I'm not sure how you're going to work on those skills.

[dewilliams2]

Thanks Although my gf usually does NOT want me to stop or change positions... she would rather me keep on going and blow my load than go slower.

But, I have always read about Kegels (everywhere), Tried it for a bit, but was apprehensive. I'll try it again though, its going to be a few weeks before my girlfriend anyhow

Take charge...I'm guessin your bigger than her...role her around....I mean unless she is a really big girl but most girls I have been with have been between 120-140 so I've been able to throw them all over the place to put them in position...I mean don't give her whiplash but pick her up and flip her over.

[girl68]

one position is BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORING. my ex, one postition, premature load blower is single and will be for a long, long time- until that is he finds someone totally uninterested in sex.

[dewilliams2]

one position is BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORING. my ex, one postition, premature load blower is single and will be for a long, long time- until that is he finds someone totally uninterested in sex.

Even my first time I changed up positions...maybe I've just seen to much porn. I don't know...it seemed pretty normal to me.

I mean your basics are missionary, doggie, cowgirl, and reverse cowgirl. Then there is always sideways but I find it difficult to really go at it on my side. Standing up is also an option but I can only hold a woman for so long while also ****ing.

Then you get into some of your crazier ones I've never tried....although I dated a girl who owned the Karma Sutra book but I just don't think I'm as flexible as some of those positions looked like I needed to be.

But my first time had the first 3 positions I mentioned. Like I said it just felt natural.

[TheTooya]

... I didn't say I only do one position, but when things are getting hot and I am pounding her really fast the last thing she wants is for me to go for a full stop.

@dewilliams
I know the basic positions, <_< I'm not strong enough to pick her up for that long during sex, I only weigh 140 :p (granted she weighs about 100)

Thanks for the help girl68 and ignognito.
Also, girl68, Kegels excercises can be done by both guys and girls. For a guy you are pulling the PC muscle that suppresses blowing your top.