Want a baby

[millianaire]

god 'step son' never thought of it like that blimey the things you have to think about..... now im worried that his ex partner might start playing up when i say im pregnant..... damn can never win

[qwertz]

. also i will never be a single mum with my family around

Ermmm, you can have all the family in the world, but you are still a single mum if you are single and have a child!

I hope for your sake, this isnt too rushed, it sounds to me like you both didnt do a great deal of thinking about this beforehand.

[millianaire]

thanks for ur opinion but were fine now.... its not rushed at all..... now we have it all out in the open life is alot easier and he can actually talk to me about his feelings about having a baby, which he couldnt before. we feel its the right time and i'm happy. yes i might be a single mum if we ever split up but i will never be alone with no help. i know it wont feel like that all the time but everyone couple has to start somewhere and im not going to think negatively coz the worst will happen.

so thanks anyways