Haunted by girlfriends past :((

[lahnnabell]

She needs to go to a clinic and get a proper set of tests done.

[Gigabitch]

You knew all of this before getting together with her, right?

IMO, that makes you just as big a twat as the two guys who double-teamed her when she was wasted if you turn around and dump her now.

[xxazurexx]

If these tests are being offered by the NHS in club toilets, they will be legit tests and exactly the same test that a doctor would do. The NHS is our national health service and they will be professionals from the NHS administering these tests. We can just walk into a chemist in the UK and get a test done, ....we don't have to go personally and to see a doctor. I guess it's being done and because sex diseases are on the rise, not surprisingly and at the rate kids seem to put it about these days...they are like rabbits!

OP, if you can't deal with it, then end it....or get over it and grow up ffs!!!!

I also agree with Giga.

[girl68]

It's his attitude that's alarming. He thinks he's clear but has no reason to think that. Unless he never had sex with her. Not to mention all the other STD's she COULD have (you know how it takes like sometimes up to 6mths for something to show up and even then there might not be ANY symptoms) either way, it's his lack of sexual safety that is like WHOA, really?

[CraigQQ]

I came here for advice, not STD help and lectures.

I know shes clear because she got herself fully tested after she got chlymidia.


Anyway i have now moved in with her and it's going really well.

[nerdy_guy]

Anyway i have now moved in with her and it's going really well.

It gets really old, really fast. And If it doesn't work out between the both of you, you'll end up being branded a moocher.

[xxazurexx]

Anyway i have now moved in with her and it's going really well.

Good for you.

Then you won't need anyones help anymore.

[CraigQQ]

Lol 90% of the people replying to my thread are idiots. Seriously.

'Spose thats what i get for coming to a place like this for some simple advice.

[xxazurexx]

Whatever.

You are dealing with GROWN UPS in this thread, who have a hell of a lot more life and love experience than you have had in your mere 19 years on the planet.

If you don't like to hear the truth and listen to good and sound advice...PISS OFF.

[CraigQQ]

\hardly sound advice, i'm being told to dump my girlfriend whom i adore because she's had a bad past?? sort yourselves out, i could do a better job at giving people advice.

[Gigabitch]

\hardly sound advice, i'm being told to dump my girlfriend whom i adore because she's had a bad past?? sort yourselves out, i could do a better job at giving people advice.

Weren't you thinking that it might be a good idea for you to go out and get equal amounts of experience? Bad idea. It wouldn't help.

So did you just give yourself a harsh talking to and tell yourself to get over it?

[IncognitoSir]

Weren't you thinking that it might be a good idea for you to go out and get equal amounts of experience? Bad idea. It wouldn't help.

So did you just give yourself a harsh talking to and tell yourself to get over it?

Really, GTFO dude. You wanna get smart now right? Forget piss off, **** off!

[girl68]

Oh geeze- ignorance like that spreads those STD's around. We see threads like yours sooo often it's not even funny. It never really works out. But I'm sure for you it will because you guys are different. Funny, they all say that!

[kitkitkitty]

about the whole reputation thing...? people talk yknow A LOT. you either... 1. liked her before and didn't wana admit that she was like that or 2. you really dont know that much about her. or your town.

[nerdy_guy]

\hardly sound advice, i'm being told to dump my girlfriend whom i adore because she's had a bad past?? sort yourselves out, i could do a better job at giving people advice.

If you really are, you'd be giving them, not asking for it.