Why do girls want to be #1 priority?

[BigTen#95]

he's laughing at my retarded comment

it's ok you don't have to mind him--his dad dropped on his head a few times n shit, and umm yeah dude his life wasn't good his mom didn't love him and stuff.. bad

hahah just playin'

is Steve a GUY or GIRL, your referring to him/her as a guy

[King Zarathu]

i just realized it was a girl. don't try to screw her cuz she's mine now.

i've been here that long and just figured out it's a girl.. omg.. hahahahah!!

[Steve2004]

im a girl, and LT knows this now, sorry for the confusion. -kicks LT- GIRL GIRL GIRL!

[edit] LT POSTS TOO FAST

[King Zarathu]

*kicks you back*

*goes down on you*

[Illusional]

Thats why bassically all of my posts have had so much anger in them b/c when I got here an individual was a smartass to me...put a very bad taste in my mouth

Bigten

haha you're probably referring to me. i get under most people's skin in the introduction section. secondly, you won't get banned because you get mad. i love to see people get mad. it makes me laugh. third, i believe that steve is actually a female.

well well well..to your little problem that you are having. it's not so much that girls want to be YOUR number 1 priority. it's more so that they would like half of the attention that you give to the gym. first off, i think that you seem overly conceited probably because you're lift and you can bench 4000 pounds. me, i'm only lifting in the 2000 pound cateory so i'm not quite at your level. however you need to get your mind off the idea that girls are only after you because you're on the team. there are about 20 other guys that they could **** because they are also on the team.

your perception of girls are totally wrong. if you ignore their needs, then of course problems will arise. when you don't get enough rest then your muscles are overworked, in the same sense that if your gf doesn't get what she needs, thing start to happen. i think that you're starting relationships with the wrong type of girls. you want someone to be on YOUR schedual but the truth is that they have a life outside of the gym and when you put more time and energy into yourself rather than your significant other, it seems like crying to you, but they are thinking, why am i still with this guy.

raverboy

[Darkace]

i got your back bigten plz stop the flaming its getting outa control

[Steve2004]

i got your back bigten plz stop the flaming its getting outa control

i'm sorry i dont know the meaning of "flaming" in the context you put it in..could you explain it to me?

[Illusional]

actually i haven't really seen all that much flaming...yet. it has mostly been swearing, and a rebuttle.

raverboy

[kronos51]

Jeez people, calm down a lil. Theres no reason to get upset here. No offense bigten, but youre taking some things meant in joking a little too seriously, although they are egging you on I will admit. Also, I think their main problem is that your posts seem to be quite disrespectful to girls and quite narcicisstic if I may say so. It may be that cussing alot is your style, but it makes your questions seem like youre pissed off at everyone here and at girls, which can be taken as a bit offensive.

I think everyone just needs to calm down in heah and have a good time

[Illusional]

let's all take a deep breath and have another beer. who's down for a heineken??

raverboy

[kronos51]

**** yeah! Im down for a Heiny any time

[kanzaki]

wat? Steve is a girl??

man...i am SO outdated here -__-

anyway, replying to the topic

not all girls want to be top priority. But all the girls at least wants half or the guys attention, SPECIALLY their OWN BOYFRIEND. N btw, plz, if the girl only wants your DICK bcuz ur in the team, (quote illutional) there are 20 more of them, WHY you?

To me, you put your girlfriend alittle too low in your scale. And, here is a solution, you can always excuse yourself when it get too late. At least your gf will not have that much of a big fit compared to when you compleately turn her down.

p/s>> NOBODY will hate a person ONCE he start posting. N dun bitch bout steve, She help me out alot b4. She is very experienced

[BigTen#95]

haha you're probably referring to me. i get under most people's skin in the introduction section. secondly, you won't get banned because you get mad. i love to see people get mad. it makes me laugh. third, i believe that steve is actually a female.

well well well..to your little problem that you are having. it's not so much that girls want to be YOUR number 1 priority. it's more so that they would like half of the attention that you give to the gym. first off, i think that you seem overly conceited probably because you're lift and you can bench 4000 pounds. me, i'm only lifting in the 2000 pound cateory so i'm not quite at your level. however you need to get your mind off the idea that girls are only after you because you're on the team. there are about 20 other guys that they could **** because they are also on the team.

your perception of girls are totally wrong. if you ignore their needs, then of course problems will arise. when you don't get enough rest then your muscles are overworked, in the same sense that if your gf doesn't get what she needs, thing start to happen. i think that you're starting relationships with the wrong type of girls. you want someone to be on YOUR schedual but the truth is that they have a life outside of the gym and when you put more time and energy into yourself rather than your significant other, it seems like crying to you, but they are thinking, why am i still with this guy.

raverboy

Finally someone answered my post instead of pissin me off with negative bullshit advice,
cause this is a real problem with me


Now the whole team and girl thing, thats no shit man, its not just me, (by the way this is a bigten college, there 105 guys on the team, not 20) every guy gets it, theres college sluts that want football dick, I'm not being conceited when I say that, its the ****ing truth bro. You would not understand unless you played. Some people around here are infatuaited(Spelling??Sorry to you ****ers that don't like that, didn't have a dictionary in front of me) with players, not football, but basketball to. Its not something that I make up, nor is it something I am bragging about, its simply the truth.
Some girls just wanna have sex with an athlete so they can say the next week, look thats him on tv.

Anyway, since thats cleared up. My problem is the girls complaining about me not being about to be out late all the time, and not drinking, I know they have a life, it consistes og class, and work. I try to make time for my girl when I can, but I mean, my scholarship depends on me staying strong, and continually getting better. Mabye I put to much infesist on that, but I don't wanna **** that up, cause my mom is so proud of me.

Do I need to find a girl that appreciates what I do more? I know it sounds liek I make my girl adjust to my schedule and only my schedule, but thats simply not the truth, I take her out to nice restraunts, take her to movies, went to prom with her, met the parents, eat dinner with her at her house and family, so they can get to know me.

But for my past 3 girls that has not been enough, and as soon as I turn down like 3 offers to go out, or do something, when I'm just plain shittfaced tired. She starts judging me and saying I NEVER do anything with her, and she needs someone to devot more attention to her, I mean, I burn myself out for these girls and they still end up thinking I don't give them enough time and I honestly think its b/c they know they aren't my Number 1 priority, but cmon, how can they be....

#95

[kanzaki]

let's all take a deep breath and have another beer. who's down for a heineken??

raverboy

mememememe!!!

[kronos51]

There ya go man, that was a much more insightful post. Now we know that you actually care and arent just an asshole jock .

In that case I would say yeah, you just need to find a girl that appreciates that you are a varsity athlete and also want to do well in school, and right now that is your priority in life. If she cannot accept that you care about her, but need to do what you do in order to have a healthy life, then too bad.

Im an engineer, which is *almost* as bad as a varsity athlete (I actually have a friend thats an electrical engineer with me that is a football player, luckily even tho were D1 our team sucks and they dont care that much, but its still killer). My gf understands that I need to work to secure my future, and she needs to work too. Its a mutual understanding that must be had while you are in school, and after.

Good luck