What turns you off most?

[Fawn]

A guy that keeps asking "is this okay?" every two seconds during sex.

Yes, this has happened to me. Don't ask unless it looks like i'm in pain! **** me DAMMIT!!!!!

[misombra]

lol!!! i had a guy do that with me too!!! the same guy that called me dude!!! he was gone quickly.

"you like it when i **** you like that baby?" that's much better.

[abercromqt20]

i once dated this guy who could not stop calling me dude. "dude" tailed every sentence and i hated it.

hey i think we dated the same guy! haha, i swear i dated a guy that did the same thing too. drove me nuts. it makes you feel like you are just one of the guys when he calls you dude all the time!

[kanzaki]

guys withOUT a penis

[sunny72]

Bad smell, bad breath, piercings. And guys who are not able to change their socks and underwear on a daily basis (unfortunately they still exist).

[abercromqt20]

i'm not a big fan of tatoos. i mean i won't not date a guy that has them. i just don't see what the big deal is about them, and why some people like them so much. i mean my bf is a really muscular guy, and sometimes he talks about getting arm done. and i'm like thinking no! i just find that skin is so much sexier than having a tatoo there.

[nomas]

Hey, girls, you dudes are funny...ha ha.

This thread seems to be in the consensus (in the girls part) that much as the femenist movement has made strides, there remain a few things you still like in traditional male/female gender roles.

Me, I'm somewhat a femenist and DO like girls who are "just one of the guys".. and I am probably overly sensitive to the point of being a turn off, they way you dudes (ladies) are expressing the way you like a guy to take control...but I believe that this could be learned behavior, so there's hope for me...once I get started...

Freddie

[abercromqt20]

there is a difference between "being one of the guys" and having a gf you feel super comfortable around and gets along great with ur friends and can just hang out, as opposed to having a gf you treat like an actual guy friend. i think that's more where we were getting at.

[nomas]

Maybe I'm overly ambitious...I want so many things that such variety is sometimes contradictory.

I can dig a relationship with a girl I can call "dude" and joke around with with total comfort...but I can also dig a relationship with a girl that's my princess and I can hold in my arms in very much the traditional male role...if that makes sense.

I think we only analyze things when we think about it too much. I think in the end, you do things as they feel at the moment anyway and if it works out, great, if not, oh, well.. I guess more often than not we all play by ear and perhaps it is best this way.

Freddie

[Fayebelle]

I like "guy stuff" (i.e. sports, video games, etc...) but I am very much a girlie girl. I'm very old fashioned- I'd love to be a housewife/stay home Mom and make my home cozy for my husband to come home to. I can not stand wishy washy guys who can't make up their minds. I like fix it guys- like OH NO- my tire's flat- I'll fix it to OH NO- I've had the worst day ever- I'll fix it OH NO- I bounced ANOTHER check- I'll fix it etc.. I want a man I can lean on and I know he won't fall over. Know what I mean?

[Bianca81]

hairy guys... but on the other hand i also get turned off by overly groomed men. my bf's eyebrows shouldn't be smaller than mine. also, i am a big TEETH person. i could never kiss someone with horrible teeth. oh, and i hate kissing smokers. that is such a turn off to me. i guess it's probably different when 2 smokers kiss, they probably don't notice it. but i don't so when i kiss a guy that does it's just gross to me!

[BigTen#95]

hairy guys... but on the other hand i also get turned off by overly groomed men. my bf's eyebrows shouldn't be smaller than mine. also, i am a big TEETH person. i could never kiss someone with horrible teeth. oh, and i hate kissing smokers. that is such a turn off to me. i guess it's probably different when 2 smokers kiss, they probably don't notice it. but i don't so when i kiss a guy that does it's just gross to me!

I agree with the smoking, I'm turned off just watching a woman smoke, let alone kissing her.

95

[Nameless18]

Hairy girls? I'm talking about a really really hairy girl..

[nomas]

I would prefer people not have a smoking habit...especially friends or family or girls I'm interested in..simply for health reasons..but I can't help find it sexy to see a girl taking a drag on her cigarrette..kinda like "I don't give a damn" attitude.. I hate that I do, but I do find it sexy. Still, I'd try to get her to quit.

Freddie

[Nameless18]

Smoking makes her teeth looks yellow, bad breath and ugly nails.. plus i'll die a passive smoker around her.