Am i to young?

[Steve2004]

well, he is 18, my best friends brother, and he keeps saying he doesn't want to go off to college a virgin.. i know i love him, and i want to do it. i guess i was just asking if ppl think i'm to you to do it.

Sarah

uhm...bad bad thing to say.

Alright, well first of all..he's 18. that's already illegal. :/.

So he's not trying to have sex with you because he wants to, or because he loves you. He wants to have sex with you so he can hold his head up in college. It's a possibility that you'll just be a story he has to take to college, about how he lost his virginity. I personally think you're too young. And this boy sounds like an asshole. Dont do it :\. you'll regret it

[abercromqt20]

i think if you have to ask you probably are. and girl i think ur missing the *BIG RED FLAG* here. this guy flat out told you he doesn't want to go to college a virgin. i'm just saying don't let him use you. don't have sex until YOU are ready. a decision you need to make on ur own for urself. anyways i know there is alot to be said for maturity and all but i still think in general 13 is too young.

[qtsarah136]

How long have you been dating this guy?

6 months, i mean we've done alot, just not sex(intercourse)

Sarah

[jb5k1]

I smell statutory(spelling??) rape coming on.. Has anyone picked up on the fact that HE"S 18!!! Yes my first time was over this summer and I'm 15. My gf had her first with me a month ago. yes it's fun and yes we love it, but I didn't make her do it. She simply said I'm ready to **** you. (kind of a little more to it than that). Yea if you think your not ready than your obviously not ready.

On a sidenote, my gf was adopted because her mother was 14 when she had her and couldn't care for her baby. Keep that in mind when your having sex...

[Steve2004]

Has anyone picked up on the fact that HE"S 18!!!

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Alright, well first of all..he's 18. that's already illegal. :/.

...no...no one

[kronos51]

Yeah, looks like a guy that just wants to say hes not a virgin in college. If you really want to test it and he wants to stay with you in college, then see if he is willing to wait for you there. That is also a huuuuuuge age and maturity gap. I cannot imagine dating a 13 year old myself, or even a 14 year old (im 19). I mean I have cousins that are that old that I treat like kid brothers and sisters. Seems like its not something that will probably last through him going to college and you going to highschool, but it is all up to you, hope our advice helps in some way

[blue]

most 18 year old guys are out for one thing and heck most guys are out for just one thing. Dont let this guy persuade you into doing something you are so not ready to do. You are young and you have so much more than this asshole lying ahead, especilly more than just some guy that probrably won tbe around anymore. what do you think will happen when he goes off to college? He IS going out to get laid. Your virginity is something special...when the right person comes along you will know. There is so much risk in all this preg, stds, emotional stress. I know i have a little boy thats 7 and im only turning 24 when you have kids everything changes!

[limplizardusa]

This dude sounds like a major-league loser! 18 year old trying to seduce a 13 year old, and the best he can come up with is this lame line! Sounds like he's gonna be a virgin for a long time. My advice to you -- buy him a big bottle of cheap hand lotion and tell him thanks for the opportunity to co-star in his pitiful coming out party, but no thanks.

[Illusional]

13... that sounds like skye and innova...

raverboy

[kanzaki]

limp >> YAHOO! *high five!*

i totaly agree with you!

n btw, Yes u are too young. N he is a major loser. At least, have it with a real guy n not a jerk. nuff said

[sunny72]

You are definitely too young.

[Kiechi]

Your as young as you percieve yourself to be. Your choice. Remember everything comes with consequences.

[abercromqt20]

in this case she shouldn't. this guy is totally just using her for sex. i gaurentee if she did, and then he goes away to school as soon as the oportunity comes he will cheat on her. somebody who genuinly cares about her deserves her virginity. somebody that cares more about making the experience good for her rather than just using so he can accomplish something.

[PoetsRevenge84]

Like those before me have said, if you have to ask "is it right" you should generally assume that it isn't time for you yet. Not only that, he's 18 and pressuring you whether you realize it or not. You are still young. Enjoy your youth. You have the rest of your life for sex and other adult things. Wait until you are old enough to make decisions like that. Trust me, you don't want to end up pregnant or with an STD. Chances are your b/f isn't a virgin at 18. Don't give in to his little ploy to get you into bed. Ultimaltely it is your choice but remember, he is GOING OFF TO COLLEGE. If you get pregnant, he is sure to ignore it. Just listen to your inner voice. Trust your first instinct and if you decide to go through with it, get yourself on birth control and get some condoms.