*UPDATE*
well we had our meeting, and this time was so different. There was hardly any social chat, I got one word answers from her and she didnt ask many questions really, the meeting lasted about 5 minutes. The time before ( 3 weeks ) ago she was full of social questions, It's like 2 different people. She did tell me last time that she just split from her husband ( she married young ) so I don't know whats happening here. I couldnt ask her out this time, there was hardly any interaction.