Sounds like you had an extended one-night-stand. No, you were right to do what you did. He clearly is not interested in a relationship right now and that is okay. You are a little hurt now because you had sex with him....
You seem to recognize that the sex was probably a mistake. It makes the whole thing seem like a break up when no relationship ever really was present. Men would have a lot more respect for women, and women would have a lot more respect for themselves if every one would hold off on sex until after marriage.
Hey, I'm on your side!
Carlos Augustine
carlos, you can't do that. sorry.