Girl--Mixture Of Feelings

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shes a young girl and she loves attention and maybe in the mix some pms

[King Zarathu]

i asked her if it was pms and she's like "no! and i would prefer u not ask me questions like that" and i laughed and said "hee hee ok "

hahah.. u think she was just not admitting it?

[Killerbabe]

my g/f and i were dating for 8 months so far. i also have a phone curfew that is at 9:30... to the new members who don't know me, i'm only 14 -_-`

okie dokie well last night my g/f had some serious problems. her emotions were all ****ed up and tied in knots.. you know how you miss somebody so much that sometimes it hurts your chest? last night, i was on the phone with her until midnight because she was screaming crying from all the pain. she said she wasn't sure if she was in love with me anymore. she didn't know why, but she said that all she could do was think about me because of how sweet i was all week.

she asked what i would do if she wasn't in love w/ me anymore and i said "well.. i gotta be honest. i'd just leave you." THEN she really got ****ed up. she was saying "no! i won't let you!" i know it wasn't fake because she was almost screaming at the top of her lungs in tears.


but afterwards she was crying for some period of time and i had NO idea what to do because i had never been there before. i tried to be consoling but i told her i thought maybe it was the end of the relationship.

so the only thing i could think of was making laugh her ass off by sayin' stupid shit like: when she said she couldn't breath cuz she had a stuffy nose i was like "dude as much as you use your mouth it's gotten pretty big i'm sure you could breath out of that"

but she stopped crying, blew her nose, and told me she still loved me when she found time between laughing histarically.



i have no idea what the **** happened.. please fill me in somebody

Just like everyone said she IS a young girl and young girls are more apt to having moddo swings, etc. BUT - as a girl I can relate to her. Let me try to explain.

I suspect, that she's going through a certain phase she's not familiar with, due to a lack of experinence at an age so tender. I speculate that she actually LOVES you - she's been in love with you for so long, her infatuation has grown into something bigger - and more meaningful - love. Since she's probably never loved before (not in that way), she's confused in the midst of her emotions. She says that "all she could do was think about me because of how sweet I was all week" because she's no longer simply infatuated with you, she seems to have accumulated an enormous amount of tenderness and care for you, as opposed to the initial attraction factor. The fact that the tenderness and care she has for you exceeded the attraction factor seems to throw her off balance. She feels like she cares about you enough to make you stay by force, yet she thinks she's not in love. But she is - it's just suppressed by other feelings she has for you. She doesn't realize (not yet) that what she experiences towards you is bigger than what she used to experience. (The fact that she had a "viod" or a chest pain from missing you so much clearly indicates that she's still in love and perhaps loves you.)

Sheesh... so much drama for 14 year olds! When did life get so complicated?!

[King Zarathu]

Thank you so much for that piece of advice. I have used it to the best of my ability.