What's the idea of girls thinking that movie stars are the most attractive men ever.

[qwertz]

My 'mate'? ok i'm lost now!

[Ryan Heitzman]

You said you had a boyfriend. That's what I ment. Or did I miss understand something?

[qwertz]

I do have a bf ...he's not a 'mate' though.

[Ryan Heitzman]

Oh. I don't know what the difference is here. I guess you mean your not married to him.

[girl68]

Yeah. I could look like that too if I worked out and stuff.

No, I so do not think you can.

This is the same as me saying WTF is the deal with Megan Fox, she ain't got shit on me. If I worked out I'd look like her... No, I wouldn't.

[Ryan Heitzman]

Maybe. But I really don't care how physically attractive I am to the max. I'm happy for who I am.

[sweetkissesforu]

Thats why.

I repeat skin is only skin deep but that is fine lookin skin

[Ryan Heitzman]

I do hate that we are not created as equals.

But it's hard to live with someone that is more attracted to someone else other then me. It's just hard.

[MerryH]

Hard like Brad Pitt's abs.

[warriormaiden]

No, I so do not think you can.

This is the same as me saying WTF is the deal with Megan Fox, she ain't got shit on me. If I worked out I'd look like her... No, I wouldn't.

I honestly think she looks kind've weird. Like, there's something wrong her face or something, I can't quite put my finger on it.

I don't understand how women can go goo-goo-gah gah over some man, they're never going to meet. I haven't had a crush on a celeb in over a decade.

[Ryan Heitzman]

I hate Brad pit, though. I hate the fact people just like him for his looks. He's actually quite a pig from what I've heard. He sucks.

Although that one movie he played in where he was plotting to kill hitler was a good one he made. He looks a lot better with facial hair in my opinion. That baby face woudln't crack it for me if I was a girl.

[vertical_sky]

I honestly think she looks kind've weird. Like, there's something wrong her face or something, I can't quite put my finger on it.

I don't understand how women can go goo-goo-gah gah over some man, they're never going to meet. I haven't had a crush on a celeb in over a decade.

I think because it's pure fantasy. We don't know who the person really is, so we can lay whatever personality over them that we like. It happens with celebrities more than "regular" people because we see the same celebrities everywhere.... movies, TV, covers of magazines.

Personally, I'm not at all threatened by my hypothetical guy having crushes on celebrities or watching pornography. Why? Because everyone has a right to a fantasy life and to their private thoughts, and with celebrities and porn especially, they are incredibly SAFE thoughts. I would far prefer my guy to drool over an unobtainable celebrity than that hot girl across the bar.

For instance, I have the hugest crush on Neil Patrick Harris. Between How I Met Your Mother and Dr. Horrible, I find the man damningly adorable. The fact that he is gay is neither here nor there. In real life, it would NEVER happen... I probably wouldn't even be attracted to him if he was sitting across from me over coffee. But in my head... yowza.

As the saying goes, we are monogamous, not dead.

[MerryH]

Neil Patrick Harris

You've seen the Harold and Kumar movies, right? He's pretty much the same character he plays on HIMYM, but with more cocaine and hookers. It's pretty hot in that trainwrecky, unstable way.

[vertical_sky]

It's pretty hot in that trainwrecky, unstable way.

My favorite kind!

[warriormaiden]

I think because it's pure fantasy. We don't know who the person really is, so we can lay whatever personality over them that we like. It happens with celebrities more than "regular" people because we see the same celebrities everywhere.... movies, TV, covers of magazines.

Personally, I'm not at all threatened by my hypothetical guy having crushes on celebrities or watching pornography. Why? Because everyone has a right to a fantasy life and to their private thoughts, and with celebrities and porn especially, they are incredibly SAFE thoughts. I would far prefer my guy to drool over an unobtainable celebrity than that hot girl across the bar.

For instance, I have the hugest crush on Neil Patrick Harris. Between How I Met Your Mother and Dr. Horrible, I find the man damningly adorable. The fact that he is gay is neither here nor there. In real life, it would NEVER happen... I probably wouldn't even be attracted to him if he was sitting across from me over coffee. But in my head... yowza.

As the saying goes, we are monogamous, not dead.

I wouldn't have a problem with my significant other fantasizing about other people, because I know it's not something you can stop, it's natural. But when people start making it in to an emotional connection with someone they have never met, and never going to meet, haven't exchanged words or ANYTHING, that's when it's like, dude; come back to reality.
And I can understand your crush. I had a crush on him too, till I found out he would never find me sexually attractive.