Help! I'm too passive in bed!!!

[DannyH]

He needs to teach you and you need to find out what you like that is all. 6 weeks after starting having sex your gonna be shy once you find out what you like you'll be fine.

Now that whole all his ex's were virgins?!? Where did he learn all his moves? middle school, high school, porn?
I'm pretty sure if I was using the same moves that I started with I wouldn't be able to keep it up either.

[nativeaustin83]

He's 32 and he's only been with 5 people, all of them virgins? That sounds really creepy and weird to me. Other posters are right, it is NOT normal to lose an erection the second time unless he hasn't had enough time to recuperate. Yes, it's hard for a guy when a woman just lays there, but you're new at this! I suggest you start trying to please yourself when he's not there just so you become more comfortable with the idea of yourself as a sexual being. If you can give yourself an orgasm, maybe you'll be able to feel a little freer with him and enjoy the sex a little more. When you're having sex, breathe deeply and focus on all the sensations and how everything feels. You're probably thinking way too much about this now and it would be helpful to just try to clear your mind and focus on how things feel. Also, you're not going to enjoy it if you guys have no foreplay. He probably doesn't even know what he is doing if he's only been with 5 people at 32. Tell him he should get you warmed up and maybe you'll feel more and get more into it!

[surfhb]

To the OP: have you ever had an orgasm?