my boyfriend and his depressed, needy ex are driving me insane

[elleda]

yeah. you're right. i already have a date on tuesday. lol

but i'll give him a chance...maybe. everyone is different. anyway, i'll find out tomorrow and let you guys know

[elleda]

OOOOH no.

i invited him over. what have i done?!?!?

he tried to get me to come over like i usually do and i said no. so that was good. but damn.

[MerryH]

i invited him over. what have i done?!?!?

And then what happened?

[hello1]

Love is crazy isn't it? you know what he is doing is wrong, you know you could meet a guy who isn't hung up on his ex or even in contact with an ex but love keeps you hanging on. I would say this shouldn't even be a problem, she should be cut from his life and I hope for your sake he does.

[elleda]

yeah... we're back together. i think it's going to be okay though. he admitted that he sees that it was wrong and wants to change. for himself. he's going to talk to her.

i hate being such a pollyanna about this but..maybe it WILL all work out? we make each other really happy.

he said that he has some work to do to be with me but that i'm worth it *cry

i'm going to be as smart about it as i can. i will let you all know !!

[MaidenMinx]

Good to hear! Best of luck!

[IndiReloaded]

Has anyone directed you to the Shining Knight Syndrome post? Its a sticky. Tell your BF to read it. Friendship is fine, but what you describe sounds unhealthy. For her as well as the two of you.

[elleda]

OH YES I DID FIND THAT ALL ON MY OWN!!!!

if i hadn't i would have been VERY grateful to you for having guided me there. thank you