What if your mouth isn't quite big enough??

[ShellyZ]

It's really more proof that you don't have good control of gag reflexes and how to open your esophagus. I'm not saying I do, far from it but come on, tons of pornstars can swallow 9" dicks and entertainers can swallow multiple feet of a sword.

Actually, it's proof that an erect penis doesn't belong in a person's mouth. Humans were not built for this kind of activity. There's a reason that a vagina can stretch to accommodate a penis or a baby (gross, I know). It's because sex and childbirth are natural functions of the human body. We're not supposed to be able to control the gag reflex. The gag reflex is an automatic reaction that protects you from swallowing something that's too big to fit down your throat. It's your body's way of saying "Don't swallow that, it won't fit, you'll choke to death!" Porn stars and sword swallowers have special training, and they tend to be freaks of nature. You know, like Olympic gymnasts. They can do all kinds of amazing things that the human body wasn't really meant to do.

Although on the contrary I remember a joke from an Adam Sandler bit talking about a girl sucking his dick and she goes "OOOMG I can never get guys all the way in my mouth but I can get yours fully in!" Not a great confidence booster haha

I approve of this. I'm totally using it the next time I want to be passive aggressive.

Is your boyfriend shaved qwertz? Like pubes and balls? I imagine that would make sucking on the balls much more pleasant

Other women feel free to chime in on this issue.

OMG yes. I love it when a guy is totally shaved down there. I mean, I've only dated one guy who shaved, but it was awesome. Better for everything, not just oral. Maybe I'm weird, but pubic hair is a bit of a turn-off for me, so shaved is a major turn-on.

[Yet another guy]

I approve of this. I'm totally using it the next time I want to be passive aggressive.

I'm pretty sure it doesn't have the same effect when you're gagging

[qwertz]

Is your boyfriend shaved qwertz? Like pubes and balls? I imagine that would make sucking on the balls much more pleasant

Other women feel free to chime in on this issue.

No, he trims a little but definately does not shave...if he did, that would be weird, men are supposed to have hair!

[smackie9]

Porn stars use a gel type makeup remover Albolene.......that's why you see the clear strands as they pull away from the penis....it's not a bunch of pre-cum. Here's a link to a step by step on how to do deep throat [url=http://www.alt-times.com/deepthroattech.html]Deep Throat Techniques[/url]

[Gratedwasabi]

As for the balls thing.. yeah, it feels great.. but for the love of everything good in the world be GENTLE. Suck at the penis like an industrial vacuum, but the balls require very, VERY delicate stimulation. Start tongue only and if you're going for sucking be SUPER gentle (think trying to suck on a big, juicy grape without bruising it in the slightest.)

But it feels great.. and it's even better than a blowjob for the "I've got a chick licking/sucking my balls" factor (I maintain the one and only reason guys go crazy for oral is because of the idea that they've managed to get a chick to do it. It's like reassurance of our manliness or something. Hard to explain.)

[sadie_genie]

Put your tongue over your teeth so you won't hurt him. Also I agree with the person who said you should give him a handjob on the rest of the penis that you cannot get into your mouth. The double stimulation is what will make him cum. I have also been told guys love it when you suck on their penis really hard and while you pull it out of your mouth, you make that smacking noise. Also, try swirling your tongue all over the head of the penis.

With practice, you will get used to the girth of his penis inside your mouth.

[ShellyZ]

I'm pretty sure it doesn't have the same effect when you're gagging

I never gag. When I want to stop, I just start "accidentally" using my teeth. Hehe, I can be so mean sometimes.

[doppelgaenger]

Try kissing the penis and stroking the shaft with your lips. Suck on the head while you jerk him off. Lick his balls.

[surfer808]

Porn stars use a gel type makeup remover Albolene.......that's why you see the clear strands as they pull away from the penis....it's not a bunch of pre-cum.

haha. Porn stars aren't magicians. Deep throating might be an impossiblilty for this gal, but it can be trained as long as there are no physical limitations. Some dicks are too big and some throats too small. Someone who can train away the gag reflex, should be commended for doing so, imo

Also the strands are probably "deep mucous" and not albolene. Deep throating causes this, and its awesome

[smackie9]

No it's Albolene. You can tell the difference.

[pepsidude]

I just cant imagine a penis that would be too big for a mouth. And please, dont post a photo of such a beast

[ShellyZ]

I just cant imagine a penis that would be too big for a mouth.

Well, the average length of an erect penis is about 6 inches. The average length of a woman's mouth, from the lips to the back of the throat, is about 3-4 inches. And the girl has to open her mouth wide enough to keep her teeth out of the way, while simultaneously trying not to choke to death. The first time I tried this, my jaw actually creaked. Even my boyfriend heard it. I wasn't even trying to deep throat or anything, I was just trying not to scrape him with my teeth. He just had to live with the fact that I couldn't take him in very far. I wasn't about to dislocate my jaw for him.

[misstgrl]

I just cant imagine a penis that would be too big for a mouth. And please, dont post a photo of such a beast

I don't know why some people are having such a hard time with the original question, its not about deep throating at all. For example: If you open your mouth as far as you can and the gap between your teeth is 2" and your guys penis is 2.5" thick then your gonna scratch him aren't ya?? Its not really that crazy of a thought and surely it must be more common then you think?