Survey: Would you date a MTF transsexual?

[Petit Papillon]

I find the thought of having sex with a tranny repulsive

Me actually too. I'm not into drama like i'm not into "special" people ... I prefer everything normal.
All this swingers, SM , bondage, open relationship and whatever shit is yeah repulsive to me .

[maxmax]

Male - Straight - No

The thing is, and as small as it may seem to some, no matter how feminine or attractive they may be, the knowledge that they used to be a man, would just kill it for me.

And that wouldn't even be as a process of rationalisation. It wouldn't just happen ...

[doppelgaenger]

Me actually too. I'm not into drama like i'm not into "special" people ... I prefer everything normal.
All this swingers, SM , bondage, open relationship and whatever shit is yeah repulsive to me .

What's so special about transsexual people?

It's so disgusting of you to categorize them with swingers, S&M, bondage, and everything else.

[maxmax]

What's so special about transsexual people?

It's so disgusting of you to categorize them with swingers, S&M, bondage, and everything else.

Agreed. I don't see how they'd fit into the same catgory as the others. The others are sexual 'practices' ... being transgender is based on a choice of gender, and not necessarily driven by sexual 'needs' or what have you.

[Sylvaren]

Agreed. I don't see how they'd fit into the same catgory as the others. The others are sexual 'practices' ... being transgender is based on a choice of gender, and not necessarily driven by sexual 'needs' or what have you.

Maxmax is correct. Being a transsexual has nothing to do with sexual intercourse and should not be categorized under such terms. It is an inner feeling that one belongs to the opposite sex, and is trapped inside the wrong body. Some transsexuals completely give up all possibility of being in a sexual relationship just to be themselves, and that's exactly why I created this survey.

[doppelgaenger]

Are you yourself a transsexual, Sylvaren?

[Sylvaren]

Are you yourself a transsexual, Sylvaren?

Yes I am. Right now I'm both pre-operation and pre-hormones. I made this survey on behalf of myself and other MTF transsexuals that might be interested in what they have to lose in order to be themselves. Transitioning to the opposite gender pays a heavy toll. Many will lose family, friends, jobs, tons of money, social acceptance, and the chances of being in a relationship all to physically be male/female.

[Petit Papillon]

What's so special about transsexual people?

It's so disgusting of you to categorize them with swingers, S&M, bondage, and everything else.

Don't tell me it's a usual situation to date and marry someone who was Jenny/Johnny before .You can't even have children with that person . No, it's not normal for me and I wouldn't accept such partner. But if you want or many many other people in this world want ,then do it, gee, I will not point fingers at you on the street, I seriously don't give a flying crap about other people. I just said, it's not normal for me and I couldn't force myself to be with such person . You don't want to tell what I should like or not right? It's my feeling about it. You're grossed out by ugly vaginas, and I have other things that I couldn't accept.

[doppelgaenger]

Yes I am. Right now I'm both pre-operation and pre-hormones. I made this survey on behalf of myself and other MTF transsexuals that might be interested in what they have to lose in order to be themselves. Transitioning to the opposite gender pays a heavy toll. Many will lose family, friends, jobs, tons of money, social acceptance, and the chances of being in a relationship all to physically be male/female.

We occasionally have stories posted on here about transsexuals (usually post op mtf) who have recently revealed their previous identity to their partner, typically after they are sexually active and they have allowed enough time for their partner to get to know them. I won't lie, it's usually tragic. To the best of my knowledge, only one couple that posted here has ever overcome this issue, and it was actually their partner (man) who came here for consolation.

Don't tell me it's a usual situation to date and marry someone who was Jenny/Johnny before .You can't even have children with that person . No, it's not normal for me and I wouldn't accept such partner. But if you want or many many other people in this world want ,then do it, gee, I will not point fingers at you on the street, I seriously don't give a flying crap about other people. I just said, it's not normal for me and I couldn't force myself to be with such person . You don't want to tell what I should like or not right? It's my feeling about it. You're grossed out by ugly vaginas, and I have other things that I couldn't accept.

PP, by responding to your post, I was in no way trying to tell you what you should like. I was confronting you because you practically labeled transsexuals as morally repulsive, just like "swingers, SM , bondage, open relationship and whatever shit". That was really disrespectful... you know, nobody criticizes you or calls you a hypocrite because you like double penetration porn films. Transsexuals may lead a life that is different and unusual... but that doesn't mean they deserve to be discriminated like that.

[Sylvaren]

We occasionally have stories posted on here about transsexuals (usually post op mtf) who have recently revealed their previous identity to their partner, typically after they are sexually active and they have allowed enough time for their partner to get to know them. I won't lie, it's usually tragic. To the best of my knowledge, only one couple that posted here has ever overcome this issue, and it was actually their partner (man) who came here for consolation.

If a transsexual starts a relationship with someone without first telling them that they're trans, that is just wrong in all kinds of ways. I would consider it entrapment.

[Petit Papillon]

PP, by responding to your post, I was in no way trying to tell you what you should like. I was confronting you because you practically labeled transsexuals as morally repulsive, just like "swingers, SM , bondage, open relationship and whatever shit". That was really disrespectful... you know, nobody criticizes you or calls you a hypocrite because you like double penetration porn films. Transsexuals may lead a life that is different and unusual... but that doesn't mean they deserve to be discriminated like that.

See, some people think that swingers, Sm,bondage and other shit is just another way to enjoy sex and they don't find it weird or repulsive . If I think I couldn't do that, it means for me it's not normal. And liking to see something in a porn movie and actually doing it , is two different things. If I watch double penetrations porn movies doesn't mean I would let a second guy go anyway near my ass , or I actually wouldn't even let some second stay stay in the same room ... And again, it's CHARLIE who said it first that he finds it repulsive, why the **** you even bitch about it to me ? Because I compared transsexuals to sex fetishes? Ah hum .

[Petit Papillon]

If a transsexual starts a relationship with someone without first telling them that they're trans, that is just wrong in all kinds of ways. I would consider it entrapment.

Exactly. As long as someone lets their partner choose either if they want to accept it or not, it's no one's business . It's the same (oh i'm sorry for a comparison like this) if someone has AIDS and decides to tell their partner first after some period of time ,mostly after they already get sexually active together ... It's not about transsexuality or whatever, it's about giving fair choice. And there will always be someone accepting it ,so there you go . I wouldn't go for it cause it's a hell of a complication in a life that is already very complicated . But if someone is strong enough to accept it, let it be! And if we wouldn't like it? So what ! Anyway we can't force anybody or make them change their mind or influence them somehow.

[Sylvaren]

See, some people think that swingers, Sm,bondage and other shit is just another way to enjoy sex and they don't find it weird or repulsive . If I think I couldn't do that, it means for me it's not normal. And liking to see something in a porn movie and actually doing it , is two different things. If I watch double penetrations porn movies doesn't mean I would let a second guy go anyway near my ass , or I actually wouldn't even let some second stay stay in the same room ... And again, it's CHARLIE who said it first that he finds it repulsive, why the **** you even bitch about it to me ? Because I compared transsexuals to sex fetishes? Ah hum .

Haha just calm down.

[tremolo]

female - straight - no

I find the idea of a sexual transformation to be creepy.

[Petit Papillon]

Haha just calm down.

I am calm

you know what, maybe I'm not attracted to transsexuals or I don't imagine being (with ;P) one ,but I was curious of how it is when you change and so . Isn't it too complicated,expensive and troublesome to go through such change? This topic is a taboo maybe in Us less but in Europe , at least I do not know of such case . I mean, this discomfort of being in a wrong body is so big that is woth going through all this trouble ? I was just curious ... And dunno , you're going male> female or otherwise? How do they reconstruct the organs ?Never even saw a picture of it but I can't imagine that a vagina or penis would look near natural after it ...I was trying to find some pics but couldn't ...