todd, reconciling works both ways. she doesn't seem to make any effort to reconcile. so what's the point? I tried to work things out with my x, but he just gave up. what can I do but to give up too?
Todd, sounds like you have your life together. Good health, good career, good shape. and if she didn't see that, it's her lost. Not yours! and the fact that she had someone else just a month after you broke up? she didn't take time to think about your relationship. she had no respect for the life you spent together. She has problem with her own self worth.
Take your time to clear your head. To have a clear break. and think about what you want. and slowly get back out there. I know it's easy for me to say. I'm still going through it myself. So saying this is like saying it to myself. Nothing in life worth living is ever easy. You have a son. Focus on your son. Give your love and energy on your son. Your ex is not worth your love and energy. Give yourself time to let things go.