Quote Originally Posted by tptp View Post
The lube thing, I don't know, I think the problem is when a guy is on the smaller side, too much wetness can be a problem because there is no friction. So she doesn't want to add extra lubrication if she doesn't have to. We usually spend a few minutes warming her up so it isn't a big deal.

Her breasts are on the smaller side (B cups) and she has asked me if I think she needs breasts implants. I told her I find natural breasts of all sized more attractive than fake ones and the only way I would support her getting implants was if there was some sort of deformity etc..

I just want to be her ideal man, not someone she settles for. I know I don't have the ideal package and I don't want her to be attracted to another guy because she wants someone bigger. Thus I really want to be amazing in bed. The frustrating part is when I question her about sex between us she doesn't tell me whole truth because she doesn't want to hurt my feelings. So I really look for other signs that she to tell me if she is liking what I am doing.
Well, if her idea man is one that has a large penis, you can't really change that. It may very well be that she's not being honest with herself about what she really wants. Only she can tell you that though.