Buddha has my man!

[Wakeup]

Yes he,s that good in bed that he makes an Atheist call out to god.

So, I guess that's your reason for staying with a man that makes you feel like crap most of the time? You do realize that he's using his religion as a reason not to commit to you, right?

My suggestion is to weigh up the pros and cons here. What is more important Good sex with a man while having no commitment with him which upsets you and causes you to come to a forum of strangers for advice or: Breaking up with him, cleansing yourself from the addiction to sex with him and then finding a good man who will want sex and commitment with you. It's your choice just don't give all your personal power and emotions away to a man that could care less whether you're with him or you are not, is my advice.

You could stay and be happy if you can teach yourself to accept only what he offers.. Can you do that?

Anyway,
Happy coitus uninteruptus to you.

On Edit: Five years is a long time to be bf/gf without the relationship progressing. May I ask who is the one who is stalling on getting married and/or living together? Also: Who was the one that bought up having a "long engagement?" You or him?

Oh.. one more thing: If you called him on his indifference and you didn't bother to go over to his house... would he actually care that you were'nt there if you refused his invitation more times than not? Have you ever tested that theory?