Have I cheated on my girlfriend?

[Mumikate]

And what do u think is better?

[Alexis]

Yes you did (dont ever confess it) you crave a physical connection.. take your time in hopes your girl comes around

[smackie9]

This indecent happened because you are in a relationship with the wrong person. Instead of cheating (in a way you were because there was physical affection and you were sharing emotional intimacy), break up with your GF because it's obvious you are being starved in your relationship and that is unhealthy.

[smackie9]

Don't worry about the guy that wants her....he will find himself dissatisfied as much as you. Joke: when you see your ex GF with a new guy, just tell yourself that your parents always told you to give up your old toys to the less fortunate.

[IndiReloaded]

At first she was messaging my hand and eventually we were holding hands and she was laying all over me. We cuddled for hours

Sure you cheated. You got physical and emotional satisfaction from this, didn't you? We're all human, with human failings. Those who avoid cheating aren't stronger or better than you. But they might be smarter b/c they know not to put themselves in situations where there will be temptation.

Sort things out with your GF. Avoid this other gal. Or breakup w/your GF. Or ask for a threesome. All possibilities.