Perhaps you should suggest masturbation. Get her some toys to play with on her own and see if she can't get off in private. If she wants your help, then by all means, get in on the action. Just make it your mission to get her off. Work on her for hours if that is what it takes. If she has really NEVER had an orgasm before, she might not know how. Tell her to relax and just focus on all the feelings she is experiencing. Tell her to fantasize about anything that really turns her on. Just get her in the mood. You seem like you are determined so do this for her. She will thank you threefold, guaranteed lol Once she has her first one, she will know what it is like and she will be able to have them in the future. If/When you do this though, don't start out by saying "You are going to come tonight!" Just let it happen. That statement will put a lot of performance pressure on her and that is not what you want. Start off by giving her a massage or maybe take a bath together. Get her relaxed before you try to get her all hot and bothered. Take your time with everything and just go slow. Let her focus on all the sensations you are giving her. Rub over her body. Lick and kiss her gently. Then start to pick it up a little and play with her breasts and thighs. Wait as long as you can to go to her genitals. You want to build a bit of sexual tension for her so she will be highly aroused before you get to work on her. Once you get her good and ready, get down and try some oral. Again, start slow. Massage and touch over her thighs and down her legs with one of your hands. Once you get the momentum going, use your finger in her. Always start slowly and once she seems really into it, pick up your speed. Ask her what she wants throughout the whole night. Make sure that what you are doing is really pleasing her. Tell her to guide you when ever she likes something or doesn't. Get to know every aspect of her sexuality and I'm sure you'll have her coming in no time. Good luck though.
