Valentines Day Doings

[Lillypond]

Women love jewellery (not the cheap kinds though) and flowers or anything other than a box of chocolate from the drug store. Can't go wrong with those. Correct me if I am wrong but men love steak and bjs/sex for vday?

[IndiReloaded]

Ehhh... I love my wife a lot, and I don't care who knows it.

Yep, she does.

Well, that's truly admirable, HIA. The two of you are very blessed to have finally found each other.

[HeartIsAching]

Well, that's truly admirable, HIA. The two of you are very blessed to have finally found each other.

Well, sorta...

I found her 20 years ago, and I knew the day I met her that I needed to be with her. I (we) couldn't until both of us learned some things, and rid ourselves of some baggage.

I had to learn that I was in fact abusive, controlling and unreasonable, and how to change that, and she had to learn to say no... or as her mother puts it, she had to grow a backbone.

If we'd gotten together 20 years ago it'd have been a train-wreck. The only thing I'm sorry about is all the wasted time. I'm frankly not long for this world, but what time I've got left is for her. I just hope it's at least 20 years.

[IndiReloaded]

I had to learn that I was in fact abusive, controlling and unreasonable, and how to change that, and she had to learn to say no... or as her mother puts it, she had to grow a backbone.

You should really stop publicly flogging yourself for this, HIA.

If we'd gotten together 20 years ago it'd have been a train-wreck. The only thing I'm sorry about is all the wasted time. I'm frankly not long for this world, but what time I've got left is for her. I just hope it's at least 20 years.

I'm listening to them right now, so thought I'd share:


This is another good one, sad tho:

[IndiReloaded]

I can't stand sad songs for very long tho, plus I know you get the 'I Robot' reference, HIA:

[HeartIsAching]

You should really stop publicly flogging yourself for this, HIA.



I'm listening to them right now, so thought I'd share:


This is another good one, sad tho:

It's part of my therapy - taking responsibility for my actions.

and I'm not flogging myself about it any longer, just accepting that it is (or was) part of who I am (or was) and that I'm making a change.

I won't hide that. I did what I did, and it will affect my life for the forseeable future. Something I have to live with.

[Superfantastich]

James and I won a valentines photoshoot (which is happening tomorrow), so I guess we will be doing that. But on the actual day we are just going to spend time together, possibly a romantic dinner

[HeartIsAching]

James and I won a valentines photoshoot (which is happening tomorrow), so I guess we will be doing that. But on the actual day we are just going to spend time together, possibly a romantic dinner

Awww... that's awesome! Hope the pics turn out great.