I am so lost and a bit hurt. What does she want?

[Wakeup]

And here I thought the cro magnon male was just a stereotype....


That's pretty pathetic IMO. Dumping a person you like because they aren't at the same place you are at a certain point in time. Wow people are lazy. No wonder so many people get divorced.

Then keep doing what you've been doing then and let her call all the shots like you've been doing. If you want to wait (and in the meantime get friend-zoned ~ google "Ladder Theory") then wait. There is no magic solution that we can tell you that will make her want to go to bed with you or be in a grown-up bf/gf relationship with you. She will play with you in this manner that she does now as long as you keep letting her.

You're so "lost and hurt." In that case stop doing what you've always done while expecting different results. You ask "what does she want" My guess is she wants you to drive her and her friends around and keep getting all that positive attention from you with very little effort. You're not getting much in return for your investment, are you?

What do you think she wants, Op?

[BackUpOrGetStng]

What does she want from you? Nothing. You have nothing to offer. You're a whiny little bitch, and she wants a man..with testicles. No one likes someone that just pines over them. It's disgusting. You disgust her.

[smackie9]

Then keep doing what you've been doing then and let her call all the shots like you've been doing. If you want to wait (and in the meantime get friend-zoned ~ google "Ladder Theory") then wait. There is no magic solution that we can tell you that will make her want to go to bed with you or be in a grown-up bf/gf relationship with you. She will play with you in this manner that she does now as long as you keep letting her.

You're so "lost and hurt." In that case stop doing what you've always done while expecting different results. You ask "what does she want" My guess is she wants you to drive her and her friends around and keep getting all that positive attention from you with very little effort. You're not getting much in return for your investment, are you?

What do you think she wants, Op?

Agreed.

So you do what she tells you....this doesn't mean you are entitled to a relationship with her. Dude what you have with her is casual. She had sex with you a what 2 times? She probably stopped herself because she thought better of it and doesn't want a serious relationship, instead she is using you as her cuddle buddy when she needs that kind of attention.........friends with out benefits. Grow some and tell her that if she doesn't want a relationship with you, then you are out of there, and not wasting anymore of your time. Having the confidence to stand up for yourself isn't being a cro magnon male, that's being a mature man.

[VincenzoG91]

If you don't move on, you will be standing there holding her purse when she meets her next boyfriend.

[smackie9]

If you don't move on, you will be standing there holding her purse when she meets her next boyfriend.

That's awesome! LOL!