Originally Posted by
Pegasus5
I want a monogamous, long-term relationship with someone who wants the same thing.
I either encounter men who are interested in hanging around with me - but who are either a bit messed up or who are just looking for fun - or I meet men who are looking for the right woman, but don't give me the time of day!
Okay, I took out the extraneous things. Your first sentence is what you want. The other stuff I almost deleted but thought it might be useful to keep as an indication of what to avoid.
So, how are you currently selecting for men who want a monogamous, long-term relationship? How are you meeting them, what do you discuss when you do, how do you present yourself...
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh