Interesting it turned it a sex themed conversation. It has never been about sex, i'm not giving it up so he will pay rent and he is not expecting it. I am also not needing some one to look after me, now that things have settled down we split all shared bills down the middle. It's not a if you take care of me I'll take care of you type thing hahaha. It is very much a mutual relationship no hand outs and no favors, not saying we dont do nice things for each other but nothing is just "given". He buys groceries, I shop n I have a hot meal ready when he gets home type thing not pay my way and my kids way and i'll **** you. Come on now, I know its easy to assume but not every "single mom" is a hooch or a mooch.
I am not over weight and I do not have a self confidence issue. There is just something that keeps me here waiting to see where things go.