why does she dress that way?

[2ucson]

Speaking of asking the g/f to calm it down, I did that with mine and she said no.

Ouch.

Yeah, I have found that trying to control or change people's behavior generally backfires. (Don't you remember being a teenager?)

That's why I never considered asking her to 'calm it down'. And while I might wish it were not so, I really have no right to ask that of her in the first place. She's a grown woman and its her body. I'm the one with the issue.

[Pilot]

Yeah I see your point. I just asked though, I mean if it was me, i'd change something like that for her. Maybe im just not worth it or shes looking for someone better. You never know.

[Junket]

Why do you dress the way you do?

For yourself? Or for her?

You probably wouldn't be so paranoid if you went with her every now and then.

Now stop bein' an insecure wank.

[2ucson]

...You probably wouldn't be so paranoid if you went with her every now and then.

Now stop bein' an insecure wank.

well frasbee, if you had actually read my post, youd see i do go with her sometimes.

so if you're not gonna read posts before you respond to them, then you can f--k right off.

[ilker]

oh! she must be dress up for her boyfriends i think one day pursue her and see what they're doing there!!!

[Tone]

Man I use to be in the same exact boat as you with my ex... she always would wear just tshirt and jeans around me and when she went out to clubs she'd wear sexy tight jeans and booby shirts. Whenever I asked her about it she said she loves to wear comfortable clothes around me cause I think she's gorgeous no matter what she wears and loves being in comfortable clothes. The only reason she has to dress up so much when she goes out is to match her friends.

If you trust her I wouldn't worry about it, you're the one she's comin home to, always remember that.

[Junket]

well frasbee, if you had actually read my post, youd see i do go with her sometimes.

And you're still a paranoid wank?

Then it's just you.

[ALovelyLady86]

2uscon dressing sexy is dressing sexy... its dressing in a way to attract sexual attention and create sex appeal... its the same for everyone... just not everyone is attracted to the same person...make sense? So dont try and get all smart with me cause it really didnt make any logical sense anyway...

We (the board) were asked an opinion... and I stated mine along with everyone else.
Anyway I would not dress sexy for anyone other than the one I love, simply because I dont want anyone other than him to see me in that form... in that way. Its a form of being faithful... I want only him to look at me in a sexual way and in MY OPINION this chick wants some attention... name another reason why she would dress this way? Certainly not to have fun... you can have plenty of fun without revealing too much... so name me a legit reason..

[Late_vamp]

2uscon dressing sexy is dressing sexy... its dressing in a way to attract sexual attention and create sex appeal... its the same for everyone... just not everyone is attracted to the same person...make sense? So dont try and get all smart with me cause it really didnt make any logical sense anyway...

We (the board) were asked an opinion... and I stated mine along with everyone else.
Anyway I would not dress sexy for anyone other than the one I love, simply because I dont want anyone other than him to see me in that form... in that way. Its a form of being faithful... I want only him to look at me in a sexual way and in MY OPINION this chick wants some attention... name another reason why she would dress this way? Certainly not to have fun... you can have plenty of fun without revealing too much... so name me a legit reason..

wow , i love your way of thinking , your one of the very few and kinda extinct type of girl . i find it very logical and smart . THIS ladies and gentleman is unique to my eyes .

never change your way of thinking on this , no matter wich guy ask's you to do so . There is only such a small % of girls like you and i hope you share your point of view with other women ( not only here ) , so maybe they will make sense also .

[Late_vamp]

basically what some ppl are saying is that girls NEED to dress sexy in order to have fun...

its as if i told i NEED to get drunk in order to have fun , i NEVER have fun without being drunk ... that idea is VERY stupid .

and to the ppl that dress just to look nice like their friends or like them ... your all sheep . now go line up and wait for the leader to decide what to do with your ass .

[misombra]

wow , i love your way of thinking , your one of the very few and kinda extinct type of girl . i find it very logical and smart . THIS ladies and gentleman is unique to my eyes .

never change your way of thinking on this , no matter wich guy ask's you to do so . There is only such a small % of girls like you and i hope you share your point of view with other women ( not only here ) , so maybe they will make sense also .

sorry latey. too latey to flirt with lovelylady she is gone daddy gone. we scared her off long ago.

[shh!]

...thank god...

[misombra]

ding-dong the witch is dead
which old witch the wicked witch...

[Rosebud]

LOL.. Misombra.! I agree with Misombra though. When I go out with my friends to a club or a bar or whatever I dress what I feel comfortable in. But I will dress up just becasue I feel good about it. I don't dress up to get attention fro other guys or anything like that. And to be honest if your girlfriend is that attractive to begin with she would attention no matter what wore! I think it's just like Misombra said, it's a girl thing, we like to feel good about ourselves and I do the same things with my friends. we'll wear each toher's clothes and do our ahir and all that fun stuff.

I wouldn't worry to much about it as you know she's coming home to you and she's not out looking for anyone else.

[shh!]

ding-dong the witch is dead
which old witch the wicked witch...

I bet she still reads this forum. She may even be posting under a new name. We should ask Kiechi to check it out. :-D